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Sex and aging: keeping the energy up?

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Contributor: .kaycat .kaycat
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What do y'all do to keep the energy up,? I find I'm less into it as I was when we were teens were always tired lol or busy
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05/05/2013
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It does take planning. It use to 'just happen'. But now I make a date with her, plan something that day (anticipation is a great aphrodisiac), then get everything ready.

Once we start I make sure not to go to fast - it isn't going to happen as much as it did - so I want to enjoy a long session with my beloved.
05/06/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
It does take planning. It use to 'just happen'. But now I make a date with her, plan something that day (anticipation is a great aphrodisiac), then get everything ready.

Once we start I make sure not to go to fast - it isn't going ... more
That's the sort of thing I like to hear. Makes me look forward to growing old with someone. The physical aspect of love can evolve.
05/06/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by eri86
That's the sort of thing I like to hear. Makes me look forward to growing old with someone. The physical aspect of love can evolve.
Thanks for the compliment.

FYI, we made great strides when sex turned from passion to recreation. Passion is almost impossible to maintain - but hey, everyone likes to have fun. The fireworks are still there - but now if there's a glitch we laugh - instead of being upset or disappointed.

Keep it fun!
05/06/2013
Contributor: .kaycat .kaycat
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
It does take planning. It use to 'just happen'. But now I make a date with her, plan something that day (anticipation is a great aphrodisiac), then get everything ready.

Once we start I make sure not to go to fast - it isn't going ... more
I think every woman wishes to hear that. That's perfect
05/06/2013
Contributor: smlove smlove
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Originally posted by .kaycat
What do y'all do to keep the energy up,? I find I'm less into it as I was when we were teens were always tired lol or busy
20 year olds get tired too. it's not always age. stress levels really mess with libido.
05/06/2013
Contributor: Bobber Bobber
Stay physically active, exercise is the best way to keep your vitality up, especially if you do things you both like.
We love riding our bicycles in the summer and snowshoeing in the winter.
05/13/2013
Contributor: babyrock babyrock
lots of aerobic exercise. i've found that stamina is directly related to how well i keep to my exercise regiment.
05/17/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
Don't forget eating habits. Fast food and junk food mess with your stamina and libido too.
05/17/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I haven't had a long time partner in quite some time. A..HOLE never wanted to do anything adventurous or different. however, the lover I had before his sorry was the best possible in the world as far as I'm concerned. and if we were still together, I think we'd still have an exciting sex life.
05/17/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
For me it's not a matter of keeping the energy up, it's a matter of keeping my stress level under control. My job can be very stressful. Diet and exercise helps tremendously with lowering my stress level.
05/17/2013