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Contributor: allybee allybee
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My boyfriend never seems to really be into sex no matter how much I try to turn him on. He'll come but he seems so tense and serious the whole time. What should I do?
10/16/2011
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Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
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Originally posted by allybee
My boyfriend never seems to really be into sex no matter how much I try to turn him on. He'll come but he seems so tense and serious the whole time. What should I do?
Break up with him? That is a pretty big issue.
10/17/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by SexyStuff
Break up with him? That is a pretty big issue.
I wouldn't suggest breaking up at all. I think communication is important. You should try talking with him about it and see if there is something you two can do that he would enjoy.
10/17/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by allybee
My boyfriend never seems to really be into sex no matter how much I try to turn him on. He'll come but he seems so tense and serious the whole time. What should I do?
You'd need to ask him that. I don't know what would work for him, but he probably would.
10/17/2011
Contributor: starklover starklover
you need to talk to him
10/17/2011
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
He could have some personal issues he hasn't shared or find hard sharing. For awhile i had sexual issues with my g/f she almost seemed the same was as your describing. She isn't the greatest at communication, but eventually we talks things through and i found out it was minor things we could easily work through. I wish you goodluck
10/28/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by Cookie Monster Mike
He could have some personal issues he hasn't shared or find hard sharing. For awhile i had sexual issues with my g/f she almost seemed the same was as your describing. She isn't the greatest at communication, but eventually we talks things ... more
Great advice. I think communication is really important and you may find out that it is possibly just an insecurity that can be worked on.
10/28/2011
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
i agree with the people above. Really try talking to him, and if he dosen't seem to want to talk try to not have sex for awhile and try again afer a few days/weeks and see if its any better.
10/28/2011
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
You should talk to him about it and see if there's something happening that you don't know about. If you're very serious about him, you can also pursue a sexual councilor, too!
11/13/2011