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Vibrating cock ring
Would you use a vibrating cock ring on your glass dildo? Or even on your shaft vibrator?

measuring ????
how do u measure for a cockring ??? Sorry if there is a place to find this out....I couldn't find it....

Vibrating Cock Rings and Pubic Hair...
Which ones would not pull on any untrimmed pubic hair? I do not want him to have to trim unless he HAS TO. We are just starting out with these and..

Have you or your partner ever used a cock ring that is worn around both cock and balls? Do you do so on a regular basis?
Until joining EF I always thought of cock rings as somewhat off beat, not used by the general public. However my thoughts are now changing and am...

The best Vibrator
whats the best vibrator for women.

Yes, most women don't have vaginal orgasms through penetration. Have you tried to have a G spot orgasm using a toy?

I have to use a vibe on my clit to cum during sex. there is one position that can make me cum without a vibe I don't know what it's called but you start in missionary but close your legs and he opens his. this really rubs your clit nice and makes it feel extra tight fitting plus it makes for a shallower penetration which is what I prefer guys like to go deep and women have more sensation in the first 2 inches of there vagina, so a shallower penetration feels better I think.

I also just want to add that I too have been with a few other partners before my hubby of 8 years and non of them gave me O's. He has given me 12 O's in 10 years of being together and that's not for trying , he has tried alot (lots of effort). my clit is just very specific. I remember every O he gave me because it was a big deal

Technically I give myself most of my O's but being with him it is a very intimate and very enjoyable experience. The most important question for you is can you give your self an Orgasm? however you give your self an orgasm is how you need to integrate it into sex with your partner.

Good luck I hope that helped

Also I want to say that I understand your frustration with not being able to cum like a guy, and just get penetrated untill orgasm. It feels great but just doesn't tip you over the edge of orgasm, it feels so good why can't I just cum

It's perfectly normal! Don't worry, most women can't orgasm from penetration alone. The vaginal walls actually aren't all that sensitive, it's the clit that gives us pleasure, so just touching the vaginal walls doesn't do all that much unless it's indirectly stimulating the clit. And it's still not abnormal to be unable to orgasm during intercourse even if you're doing what you do when you're by yourself, sometimes the pressure to perform or to please can make it harder, or even anxiety about doing so in front of someone else. I have the same problem myself, it's completely normal.

thank you everyone. No need to worry my hubby helps me accomplish my big o all the time. I was just wondering if anyone was fortunate enough to accomplish it during penetration.

Nothing wrong with supplementary stimulation.
Gay guys do that all the time when being penetrated so as to be able to cum during intercourse.

Thank you for asking the question. It was a good one and I thought I was alone in this having never orgasmed via penetrative sex. I can give myself an O easy enough with a toy and he used to be able to give me an O going down on me, but lately it hasn't been working for us. It takes too long and by that time I can see he's as frustrated as I so we give up. I think it's more psychological on my part, issues I have to work through.