Your thoughts on this?
Older women, younger men.
02/25/2011
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I think it is fine. I mean younger woman with older men is a whole thing today now me personally i would have limits like the oldest woman i dated was 14 year older than me.
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
Your thoughts on this?
02/25/2011
sometimes I'd like to give an older woman a go
02/25/2011
I wouldn't mind being with an older woman if I was even half-way into women as much as I used to be. I see nothing wrong with it. Love is love and sex is sex.
02/25/2011
Using procreation as the basis for argument, I find it to be a little striking if there is a significant age difference - 15+ years. It just seems off to me. I will fully admit I have been brainwashed by society in regards to a woman and a man's place in their relationship. There's a tinge of post-feminist (thanks P'Gell) ideals mixed in, I do ultimately believe whatever works for a person works for them and is none of my business.
02/25/2011
I think it fully depends how young the youngest person is. When you are still in your mid to late teens, age differences make a bigger difference, especially with maturity and places in life. But after that, it's all just love.
02/25/2011
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Funny, because historically, young (9-12) girls have been married off to older men.
Originally posted by
PussyGalore
Using procreation as the basis for argument, I find it to be a little striking if there is a significant age difference - 15+ years. It just seems off to me. I will fully admit I have been brainwashed by society in regards to a woman and a man's
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Using procreation as the basis for argument, I find it to be a little striking if there is a significant age difference - 15+ years. It just seems off to me. I will fully admit I have been brainwashed by society in regards to a woman and a man's place in their relationship. There's a tinge of post-feminist (thanks P'Gell) ideals mixed in, I do ultimately believe whatever works for a person works for them and is none of my business.
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02/25/2011
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Which makes perfect sense from a proceation/biological stand-point and was appropriate given the average life-spans and that society's current moral standards.
Originally posted by
potstickers
Funny, because historically, young (9-12) girls have been married off to older men.
02/25/2011
I think it's fine as long as they're both consenting adults.
02/26/2011
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Men have been doing this for ages and its never been a big deal so I think women should be free to do it too. As long as they know what they are getting into, a lot of times a younger man can become something of a son and that ruins the whole relationship.
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
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02/26/2011
It's not for me but what others do is their business.
02/26/2011
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Personally, if i were a young boy I wouldnt wanna go too much older LOL, but i know that when I am older, I would be going after the youngins. LOL
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
Your thoughts on this?
Guys do it, so why cant chicks? LOL
02/28/2011
Most women don't actively go looking for a younger man. Most women, my self included find more of a stigma associated with this. I am dating someone 7 years younger and while he thinks its no big deal I used to freak out all the time. I think its a matter of finding what you want in another person and saying to hell with the age stigma, we all deserve happines so why deny ourselves?
03/14/2011
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I was always into older guys and SWORE after a bf I was w/ on and off for 2 1/2 yrs in my early-mid 20s that I'd NEVER date a younger guy again (he was about 3 yrs younger than me, maybe a bit less). After that, I was engaged to a man who was 13 yrs my senior but ended that engagement, ironically, largely b/c of his immaturity & b/c I knew we wanted different things out of life - he was content w/ being avg and I wanted to thrive, yanno? Also, he was very insecure & jealous & drank too much & so on & so forth. Later, he briefly stalked me on fb. I dated several more older guys after him, some just a couple yrs older, some as much as 10ish. Finally, I met the love of my life, the guy I'm with now. He's 10 yrs younger than me!!! OMG! Sometimes I feel like SUCH a cradlerobber but damn if he doesn't have his shit waaaaaaaaaay more together than 90 per cent of those older guys & is way more mature for the most part. Way more confident & secure in himself as well, to a certain extent too, than some. Don't get me wrong, his age definitely shows at times, but generally in mild ways that I find amusing &/or endearing. When he angers or frustrates me, it's generally b/c of something someone of any age would do. Also, he's one of the most natural and effective doms I've had. Anyway, idk, whatever works for you. I've been in good relationships in both situations, but I guess I gotta say, when it came down to it, I've lived up to a nickname a friend gave me when I first started talking to my guy, KK,, or Kougar Kake.. LOL.
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
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04/15/2011
I think this is great, as long as the woman really watches herself and does not become the guys mom.
04/15/2011
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as long as everyone is happy, it's no big deal
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
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04/17/2011
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I can see myself an older women with a younger guy.
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
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04/18/2011
Well, speaking as a younger guy (by 12 years) I can say it's all good. As a teen or somebody in my young 20's I may have thought differently, but now I appreciate somebody who's comfortable with who she is and where she is in life and not so interested in going out and drinking or clubbing every night but still enjoys going out for an evening.
Admittedly, from a procreation perspective this is not the ideal arrangement, but if baby making isn't your primary goal in a relationship, it really doesn't weigh too heavily.
Admittedly, from a procreation perspective this is not the ideal arrangement, but if baby making isn't your primary goal in a relationship, it really doesn't weigh too heavily.
05/08/2011
I always had a crush on older woman (don't take me wrong I only mean 1-2 years LOL). I have a bad feeling about younger girls as girlfriends, dunno why.
05/08/2011
always thought it was kinda gross for older woman to be with young boy...
08/11/2011
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Agreed - totally. My boy came after me, and he is almost 16 years younger. I freaked out about it for a long time, but now, seven years down the road, I realize how little it matters.
Originally posted by
Yebby
Most women don't actively go looking for a younger man. Most women, my self included find more of a stigma associated with this. I am dating someone 7 years younger and while he thinks its no big deal I used to freak out all the time. I think
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Most women don't actively go looking for a younger man. Most women, my self included find more of a stigma associated with this. I am dating someone 7 years younger and while he thinks its no big deal I used to freak out all the time. I think its a matter of finding what you want in another person and saying to hell with the age stigma, we all deserve happines so why deny ourselves?
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12/04/2011
It's not a dynamic that I'm interested in, myself, but there's nothing wrong with it at all!
12/06/2011
Age doesn't matter. From a procreative standpoint, procreation can suck my fat silicone cock.
That said, my lover is a year and a month older than me.
That said, my lover is a year and a month older than me.
12/06/2011
I never really formed an opinion on this issue. There is this guy who is 8 years younger than me and he wants me but I don't know if I should get involved with him. I think its has something to do with the stigma that goes along with dating a younger man.
12/10/2012
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