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Older vs. younger: do you lose sex drive?

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Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
my gf is 19 years older then me i and 24 she is 43 she doesnt have the same sex drive as me and hardly wants to have sex. do you start to loose your drive at a certain age? or do you think it could be just the meds shes on
06/15/2012
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Contributor: js250 js250
It could have many reasons. Talk to her and see what she thinks. I did not gain a strong desire for sex until I was about 28-30 due to health reasons and confidence.
06/16/2012
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
Personally, since I hit my late 30s/early 40s, my drive is much higher. There are meds that do affect a person's sex drive though. If it is an issue, she should check the side effects and talk to her doctor.
06/16/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
i had the same problem with my girl
06/18/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by sexykiss
my gf is 19 years older then me i and 24 she is 43 she doesnt have the same sex drive as me and hardly wants to have sex. do you start to loose your drive at a certain age? or do you think it could be just the meds shes on
I'm 42 and my hubby is 52. It's like night and day. I have an almost out of control sex drive and he could take it or leave it. I think he has sex with me out of guilt sometimes. That, and I am a total B*&%# when I go more than 2 days without it. I told him, I have never EVER known a guy who wouldn't DIE to have a woman want to have sex all the time, and I married the ONE guy who doesn't care. IT SUCKS! Maybe some people lose their drive, but mine got 100 % stronger, no joke!
06/24/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
she has no sex drive at all NONE! if i didnt want to have sex for the rest of my life she would be fine with that
06/25/2012