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Should I be worried if we haven't had sex in 3 months?

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Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
is 43 years old we havent had sex in 3 months should i be worried
03/16/2013
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
You can sit down and discuss with him nicely, communication plays an important role in a good relationship. I don't think it has anything to do with his age, my husband's 50, and he wants sex all the time.
03/16/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
Is it because you don't want to have sex or because he doesn't want to have sex. OR neither. Is it because you've been really busy? I know life can get crazy sometimes and time flies.

I would definitely talk with your partner about it. Only you guys can know what's "normal". It's all about being happy and comfortable and if one of you isn't then it's time to have a talk.
03/16/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Just 24 here: But like the others have said... WHO isn't the one who wants it? Is your partner not initiating? Or are you not? Sit down and have a conversation about it if it is bothering you... And I would think since you are asking on the internet, it is.
03/16/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
If it's bothering you, then it's definitely a problem. What's normal and acceptable varies from relationship to relationship. You two may be perfectly fine not having sex for months at a time, while others get antsy if they aren't having it several times a week. But if you're not happy, or this is a drastic change from what it has been in the past - then you need to talk about it!
03/16/2013