I would say no, so I chose maybe.  It's all up to how comfortable you are with him.
                        
                        
                        Is 40 years to old?
12/07/2011
			        
			        
                
                        No, age is just a number.
                        
                        
                        10/02/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I don't think it's too old.
                        
                        
                        10/02/2012
			        
			        
                
                                Quote:
                                
                                    
                            
                        Age doesn't matter
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            CarmenGore262
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Im a 26 year old mother of three and I have a friend who is older than me by a lond shot, 42 years old. I like him a lot I just dont know?
                                        
                                    10/05/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Depends on how you both feel about it.  NO body else's opinion is important!
                        
                        
                        10/05/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I think 40 is to old!! I want a younger man!! I'm in my mid 50's!!!!  (don't tell my hubby!!) 
I really don't think your age difference is a big deal as long as YOU are ok with it!!
                        
                        I really don't think your age difference is a big deal as long as YOU are ok with it!!
01/23/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I think age is just a number as long as both people are over 18.
                        
                        
                        01/23/2013
			        
			        
                
                        So long as he respects you and your family, as well as you both being similarly mentally mature, I see no reason why his age should be a problem. Age IS just a number, but even relationships even with next to no age gap don't work out all the time because the people involved aren't on the same page emotionally and are not looking for the same things in life.
                        
                        
                        01/23/2013
			        
			        
                
                        my ex was 17 1/2 years older than me, but that's not what split us up. He was too controlling.
                        
                        
                        01/23/2013
			        
			        
                
                        NOT TOO OLD!!!!
                        
                        
                        01/23/2013
			        
			        
                
                                Quote:
                                
                                    
                            
                        Maybe
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            CarmenGore262
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Im a 26 year old mother of three and I have a friend who is older than me by a lond shot, 42 years old. I like him a lot I just dont know?
                                        
                                    01/23/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Depends on the person
                        
                        
                        01/23/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Some 26 year old haven't had adult experiences. Some of them still care about nothing more than drinking and partying and spending on themselves. You've probably encountered guys like this yourself, and having 3 kids you don't have time for people that are still so self centered. A 40+ year old should have the life experience to know how to be responsible for himself and others and that is something you need, so if he has the qualities go for it.
                        
                        
                        01/27/2013
			        
			        
                
                        There wasn't a option for "no" so I went with "don't know." I always believed that age is nothing more then how many times you've rotated around the sun, nothing more, nothing less. I don't think age has anything to do with maturity or what stage in life you are at. I strongly believe that all depends on what you been through in life. I've seen  young people with so much wisdom and maturity while at the same time seeing "mature" adults who were so naive and immature.
                        
                        
                        01/30/2013
			        
			        
                
                        i dont think so
                        
                        
                        01/30/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I don't think it's too big of an age gap.
                        
                        
                        01/30/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Not too old
                        
                        
                        01/30/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I am a person who likes older men. I've talked to some a couple of years older and some several years older. I think it all matters on how well you get along with that person and do they make you happy. You can try something out, doesn't mean u have to marry them.
                        
                        
                        01/30/2013
			        
			        
                
                                Quote:
                                
                                    
                            
                        Would have checked no but there's no option
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            CarmenGore262
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Im a 26 year old mother of three and I have a friend who is older than me by a lond shot, 42 years old. I like him a lot I just dont know?
                                        
                                    01/30/2013
			        
			        
                
                                Quote:
                                
                                    
                            
                        Maybe
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            CarmenGore262
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Im a 26 year old mother of three and I have a friend who is older than me by a lond shot, 42 years old. I like him a lot I just dont know?
                                        
                                    01/30/2013
			        
			        
                
                        only you know the answer to this.
                        
                        
                        01/31/2013
			        
			        
                
                                Quote:
                                
                                    
                            
                        and men mature slower than women, with your experience you are probably about the same!
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            I Wear The Pants
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Age doesn't matter. Personal experience and maturity matters.
                                        
                                    02/10/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Not at all I am 25 and my hubs is 44
                        
                        
                        02/19/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Maybe
                        
                        
                        02/21/2013
			        
			        
                
                        No, 40 is not old.
                        
                        
                        02/21/2013
			        
			        
                
                                Quote:
                                
                                    
                            
                        Well honestly I can't vote Carmen because my answer would have to be NO it is not.  Age is just a number it has nothing to do with your feelings for the other person.  It seems to me that it must be a huge concern to you as you did not give the ability to say no or even other, which leads me to conclude you already have your decision made you are just looking to get justification.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            CarmenGore262
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Im a 26 year old mother of three and I have a friend who is older than me by a lond shot, 42 years old. I like him a lot I just dont know?
                                        
                                    02/24/2013
			        
			        
                
                        It would depend on the individuals involved but I would say age shouldn't matter in the slightest.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                                Quote:
                                
                                    
                            
                        Not at all
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            CarmenGore262
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Im a 26 year old mother of three and I have a friend who is older than me by a lond shot, 42 years old. I like him a lot I just dont know?
                                        
                                    02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        why not
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                                Quote:
                                
                                    
                            
                        You left out the option for No. 
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            CarmenGore262
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Im a 26 year old mother of three and I have a friend who is older than me by a lond shot, 42 years old. I like him a lot I just dont know?
                                        
                                    and now, that's not too big an age difference. there is no 'too big' of an age difference. the only age that matters is 18. as long as everyone involved is above that age, who the fuck cares what the difference is?
if you click, you click.
my wife is 25 years older than me. she's fantastic, and we mesh better than anyone I've ever met.
03/11/2013
			        
			        
                 
            



























