Since I hit 30, everyone under 25 just looks SO young to me. I need a younger man though because everyone my age or older has such poor stamina. Anyone think this way? I think older women were meant to be with younger men, and vice versa. Agree? Disagree?
I call them 'fetus faces'...
05/31/2012
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I disagree. I think everyone is different. I don't think women are MEANT to be with younger partners, SOME may be but not all. I don't think looks age wise should make much of a difference in dating someone. I'm 26, my fiance is 24 and everyone assumes that he is younger than me. We will go out and sometimes I will get carded but he won't! I do look young for my age though, I always have. I don't think it's fair to assume that everyone your age or older that is a male has no sex drive and sucks in bed because that isn't a reality. My ex was younger than 30 and man, what a total drag. I'm glad that ended. I was engaged to him but not happy in the bedroom for a long time. I used to sit and cry thinking about my future with him and if I was really okay with a crappy sex life for the rest of my life. I'm so much happier now with my fiance but age has nothing to do with it. Though I won't date more than 3 years younger or 5 years older because that is just my preference.
PS: Fetus face is kinda disturbing lol!
PS: Fetus face is kinda disturbing lol!
05/31/2012
Not really, my guy is actually older than me by a few months, but we both have the same level of maturity, want the same things out of life, and share similar interests. I think that each individual person is different. Most of my female friends have older partners, some more than twice their age, and that seems to be where they end up being most happy.
I personally think that as long as I'm not dating a minor, age doesn't matter to me as long as you love the person. But I don't plan on any future partners, I found my lifetime guy already
I personally think that as long as I'm not dating a minor, age doesn't matter to me as long as you love the person. But I don't plan on any future partners, I found my lifetime guy already
05/31/2012
I'm just wondering here, but where does "fetus face" come into this - didn't you say you wanted something younger? "Fetus face" makes it sound derogatory, so I'm wondering where you're really coming from on this. Is it frustration that you believe you have to go with someone younger? While it is biologically sound for older women and younger men (male sexual peak is in their late teens-early twenties, female sexual peak is their mid-thirties), even my limited experience has shown that everyone is completely different and can't be lumped together by age group.
I prefer older men - they've already been through the "wanna family" thing with somebody else. It seems guys my age and younger want the "family option", and I'm not into that.
I prefer older men - they've already been through the "wanna family" thing with somebody else. It seems guys my age and younger want the "family option", and I'm not into that.
05/31/2012
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I think everyone is different.
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Since I hit 30, everyone under 25 just looks SO young to me. I need a younger man though because everyone my age or older has such poor stamina. Anyone think this way? I think older women were meant to be with younger men, and vice versa. Agree?
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Since I hit 30, everyone under 25 just looks SO young to me. I need a younger man though because everyone my age or older has such poor stamina. Anyone think this way? I think older women were meant to be with younger men, and vice versa. Agree? Disagree?
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My Man is older than I am. He has amazing stamina! He can go longer than he could when we first got together (and he never had a problem when I knew him with premature ejaculation, although he said he did when he was a teen ager)
I disagree that "everybody" older than 30 has poor stamina. My Man can go for three hours (he's in his early 50s!) Then get up the next morning and do it again. Then maybe again later than day (if he's home and the kids are out) or later than evening, and then... You get the idea.
I think men younger than I am are often very physically attractive (fertility causes people to be attractive, for obvious reasons, and younger men and women tend to be more fertile than older ones) but, I am not attracted to them as partners, even if I was looking.
I need a man with a lot of sexual experience (I do NOT want to have to break a guy in or teach him to take his time. No thanks. That is usually a given when you date really young guys.) I need a man with a decent sex drive and with stamina. (and most older guys actually last longer than younger men.) I need a man who can at least try to match wits with me intellectually and I need somebody who has a good income and a solid education and a reasonably secure job. And knows how to be polite and how to treat a lady. (That is something I had to teach My Man, even though he was older.) Usually, those requirements mean "Older Guy."
The last time I had sex with a 19 year old guy (many years ago) he came within seconds of penetration.... *sigh* Luckily he recovered immediately and could go on, but that isn't something (the premature ejac) that happens in older men that I have ever seen.
I definitely don't want a man who looks like a "fetus." (Don't you think Moby looks like a fetus? Why?)
But, that's just me.
05/31/2012
No not at all. My guy is older than me by 3 years. but we are both in our mid 20s and I think as far as stamina goes everyone is different
05/31/2012
Physiologically a younger man with an older woman makes since, but I think the human sexual condition is much grander and wider than just physiological make up. So I agree with you on a limited basis, factually speaking, but disagree when considering more variables.
06/06/2012
I'm a younger woman and I normally date older men, you know for that whole "mature" thing. However, my sex drive is abnormally high. My current guy is is in this 30's and I own all the toys and lingerie. While he's willing to play, he isn't as excited about it as I am. I'm 24, and I love him so.. I'm willing to put up with it, I suppose.
06/06/2012
fetus face? sounds like a really bad metal band.
06/27/2012
Well this was supposed to be for fun and laughter, but I think it got too serious, lol. @ Charliehorse, LOL! It kinda does!
I was more making a joke about how the older I get, the less attractive younger people look to me. Such as when I was younger, older people looked so old. Etc, etc?
I was more making a joke about how the older I get, the less attractive younger people look to me. Such as when I was younger, older people looked so old. Etc, etc?
07/01/2012
I am a female and my fiance (male) is 5 years younger than me. While there were some differences in maturity/lifestyles between us when we first started dating (25 and 20) it has begun to even out now that we are 28 and 23. I enjoy our age difference and think it works out really well!
07/01/2012
That's a matter of preference...not a given fact.
07/01/2012
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