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Contributor: mailroomorder mailroomorder
I was asked out by a man easily 25 years older than me and I wasn't sure what to do. Do I go with him and see if there is a connection? I don't find his sexually attractive, but he's not ugly. He's just.....old. In his 50s. I'm in college. Barely into my 20s.
06/24/2013
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Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
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Originally posted by mailroomorder
I was asked out by a man easily 25 years older than me and I wasn't sure what to do. Do I go with him and see if there is a connection? I don't find his sexually attractive, but he's not ugly. He's just.....old. In his 50s. I'm in ... more
If you don't find him sexually attractive, then I'm not sure if going to meet him is a waste of your time or not. On the other hand, sometimes someone doesn't seem sexually appealing to you, but once you meet them in person you realize you have a connection and the connection changes how appealing you find them.

I honestly don't have a "ceiling" age, because I figure, so long as someone can keep up with my energy level, and they are physically capable, I'm happy to have sex with them (of course, we have to get along, there has to be mutual attraction, our kinks have to coincide, etc).

If I were in your situation, I probably would go out and meet him, and see if there was a connection. But, I'm not you. If you feel uncomfortable, don't go. It's your life, your body, your preferences. Gently turn him down if you're uncomfortable.
06/24/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
he wants sex with a young hotty. embrace that or move on.
06/24/2013
Contributor: Fluke Fluke
Yeah, because guys in their 50s ask out college girls in order to find a deep emotional commitment :eyeroll:

I bet he has a lot of money/fancy cars and whatnot or else why would you even consider it. Don't waste some of the best years of your life scamming pathetic old creeps.
06/24/2013
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
it depends on what you want out of life.
06/24/2013
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
It doesn't hurt to go, unless you truly don't want to. As always, be safe when dating someone new. Let a good friend or two know where you are or even have them sit in the same restaurant together.
06/25/2013
Contributor: lslsls92 lslsls92
I think you need to evaluate what you want out of it and what he wants out of it. If you both want similar things, then go for it.
06/27/2013
Contributor: h3artsav3r h3artsav3r
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Originally posted by mailroomorder
I was asked out by a man easily 25 years older than me and I wasn't sure what to do. Do I go with him and see if there is a connection? I don't find his sexually attractive, but he's not ugly. He's just.....old. In his 50s. I'm in ... more
If you aren't sexually attracted, move on. I actually prefer significantly older men, in bed and as dates. It's all about personal preference, and what you're comfortable with.
06/29/2013