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Contributor: Ropey Ropey
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My husband is turning 38 soon, and I'll turn 30 later this year.
I'm wondering if you guys can tell me, honestly, how often you have sex in a month?
I feel like we're sorely lacking in this category, even when we're TTC now!!!
We love each other dearly, but we just don't seem to be that into sex.
It's seeming more like a chore, and often we're "too tired" to do it.
Any advice is welcome as well, thanks Edenites!
05/12/2012
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Contributor: Kissy Kissy
Quote:
Originally posted by Ropey
My husband is turning 38 soon, and I'll turn 30 later this year.
I'm wondering if you guys can tell me, honestly, how often you have sex in a month?
I feel like we're sorely lacking in this category, even when we're TTC ... more
About every other day.
05/12/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I can answer how many in a decade much better (hint: none of it was during the decade I was married).

And if it feels like a chore and you're tired, then stop doing it. The PC Sex Police are not going to arrest you for not filling a societal-approved quota. Do it when you want to and when it feels right, and don't compare yourselves to everyone else.
05/12/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
20-25
05/14/2012
Contributor: msammunition msammunition
Wow, maybe 4 to 5 times.
05/28/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
20-25 times, I would say. I'm 24, husband is 26.
05/28/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I have sex almost everyday, but I am poly and I have 2 partners. My fiance and I have been together for almost 6 years and every time sex feels like a chore we go out of our way to experiment with something completely new.
05/28/2012
Contributor: jinxydc jinxydc
Quote:
Originally posted by Ropey
My husband is turning 38 soon, and I'll turn 30 later this year.
I'm wondering if you guys can tell me, honestly, how often you have sex in a month?
I feel like we're sorely lacking in this category, even when we're TTC ... more
Unless one of us is sick, or so tired we're about to pass out from exhaustion (though that sometimes doesn't even stop us), 30 or more, with just my fiance.
05/29/2012