After I turned 35 I noticed a significant increase in my sex drive and also a confidence in trying new ideas. I am more open minded with my husband and am very willing to try new ideas and search new topics of interest. I think with confidence my drive went way up.
How has your sex life changed as you have gotten older?
07/22/2011
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It...became...legal... ? I got nothing so far. I'm curious to see what answers you get, though.
07/22/2011
I noticed an increase in my drive as I entered my 30s as well.
07/23/2011
I actually HAVE a sex life in my 30's as opposed to my 20's and teens (spent my 20's married to a man without libido and nobody wanted me in my teens). But I am having to catch up on learning everything, so it gets awkward sometimes. Fortunately, Master is a very patient man when we're together.
07/23/2011
I have found that I have a higher sex drive in my late 30s at times, but it comes and goes. I think it is somewhat realated to stress
07/23/2011
As we are both about 50, we have found that we are both more accepting, more open, and more playful. We have also found that we actually have a higher sex drive, but at the same time we are okay with enjoying sex play even if it doesn't always lead to full on intercourse/orgasm. As the guy, it does sometimes happen that getting/staying hard is a bit more work, and for Mrs. Lust, it can take a bit more time to really get lubricated. Thus, more foreplay and just play in general is happening, versus quick intercourse as sometimes happened when we were younger.
07/25/2011
My sex life changed drastically when I left my long, sex-less marriage and started a LTR with a girl less than half my age.
07/26/2011
Same here, js250. The twenties were good in that a lot of things were still new and exciting, but they've been no comparison to my thirties. My sex drive increased in my thirties, as did my self-confidence and openness about what works and doesn't work for me. And I've been with the same man for over ten years now, so we've gotten really comfortable with one another. The thirties have been good to me so far.
07/29/2011
I have a higher sex drive now @28 but I am far more adventurous as well.
07/29/2011
I've become more willing to experiement, more open, more frank, I've learned to ask for what I want, I've learned not to settle, g-spot orgasms \o/, more anal/anal play, increasingly at terms with my submissiveness & masochism and increasingly open and outspoken about them as well as exploring that part of me, more toys!, more use of toys/etc with partners, and so much more. and i'm pretty young, I reckon. (Just turned 33).
07/29/2011
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Definitely a higher sex drive too. And more honest about it generally and in the moment.
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Kake aka PoeticErotica
I've become more willing to experiement, more open, more frank, I've learned to ask for what I want, I've learned not to settle, g-spot orgasms \o/, more anal/anal play, increasingly at terms with my submissiveness & masochism and
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I've become more willing to experiement, more open, more frank, I've learned to ask for what I want, I've learned not to settle, g-spot orgasms \o/, more anal/anal play, increasingly at terms with my submissiveness & masochism and increasingly open and outspoken about them as well as exploring that part of me, more toys!, more use of toys/etc with partners, and so much more. and i'm pretty young, I reckon. (Just turned 33).
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