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Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
I recently have seperated from an ex but we are still talking. A few weeks ago I got in touch with a guy I used to date and we hooked up (safe sex is always used) and now I have someone else that wants to take me out. Im not really sure what to do. Im 40 years old and was in long term relationships since I was 15 so now I kind of want to live it up and enjoy the attention. What to do?
03/04/2011
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Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I think it's perfectly fine to just date around for a little bit and not rush back into a relationship right away. Just have some fun and enjoy yourself!
03/04/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I say go for it.
Nothing wrong with dating more than one - many people do it.
03/04/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I also say go for it, but just be honest and safe with all parties involved. You don't want anyone getting super invested and thinking that they're the only one when that is not the case. As long as you're not hurting anyone, there should be no issues. Enjoy
03/04/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
On behalf of all of us still in long term relationships: DOOOOO IT!
03/04/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Why not? If you're not in an exclusive relationship and the people you are seeing know that, there is no harm in dating as many people as you want. Enjoy the attention! When it rains, it pours!
03/04/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Thats pretty much how I feel right now. I always practice safe sex and everyone involved knows that there are no strings attached. Thanks
03/04/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
Go for it! Have fun and figure out what is right for you. As long as you're taking good care of yourself and being safe, that's all that matters.
03/04/2011
Contributor: gladiola gladiola
Just have fun with things for now! No reason to rush into a serious relationship that you aren't prepared for.
03/05/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
I say go for it.
Nothing wrong with dating more than one - many people do it.
Agree Its totally fine.
03/06/2011
Contributor: xxSuzakuxx xxSuzakuxx
Ask yourself would you like it if someone was dating you and another person at the same time, would you like that? If not don't do it
01/26/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
Do it as long as you're honest about intentions. If you imply you're interested in something long term but really you want to just have fun, then that's not okay. Make sure they know you're just interested in dating or hooking up.
01/27/2013
Contributor: B/C I CAN B/C I CAN
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
I recently have seperated from an ex but we are still talking. A few weeks ago I got in touch with a guy I used to date and we hooked up (safe sex is always used) and now I have someone else that wants to take me out. Im not really sure what to do. ... more
Don't tell anyone that you are ready for something serious until you have made up your mind about which one you want to stay with (if that's what you're going for). There's no reason not to just have a good time though if you want that. I would just steer clear of making promises to more than one guy.
01/27/2013