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Contributor: Gabler Gabler
Hi all,
So about 4 years ago I wanted my wife to learn to squirt and she was 'interested' but not massively.
I bought the Pure Wand and we used twice but she really didnt like the 'prodding feeling' it had inside, and she really isn't great with positioning vibrators etc so it was a bit of failure.

I few times using vibrators in the past (i cant recall which) she has had to peeing feeling and just hasnt relaxed much but recently she has been open to the idea of try again (more interested than a few years back).

Anyway, I want to get a new vibe to see how we go and not the pure wand, as her mind is set about that.

I was thinking of the Lelo wave series or the Gigi.

We do have the Vanity Vr6 – which always gets her off but mainly through clitoral stimulation.

The wave seems interesting as does the Gigi, I just wanted to know if anyone had opinions about them.
As for dildos, she really 'doesnt see the point' haha. She isn't much into thrusting with a dildo, so vibrator is definately the way to go..

Anyway, advice would be awesome
02/27/2019
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Contributor: Orgasms & Pearls Orgasms & Pearls
Taking it from someone who is a squirter, I have to be in the mood. It’s definitely not something I can do every time, nor can I do it when alone. Of course, everyone is different tho.

For me it takes g-spot stimulation, weather it be from a vibrator or dildo. With that being said, I think the Gigi or Mona Wave would both be good ones to try.
02/27/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife loves her Pure Wand - she refers to it as "the gusher" - but it's definitely an acquired taste.

As O&P pointed out squirting can take a bit of the stars aligning - and as she indicates, my wife does not squirt on her own.

Often the secret ingredient for my wife is for me to use a finger or two anally - always pressing up to her g-spot. No idea why the anal-squirting connection exists - but it works for us!
02/28/2019
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Dear Gabler, and how about taking that clit stimulation to the next level? Bringing in something way more power than Vanity might be your way to go - especially if you say your wife is not particularly fond of thrusting, maybe you can keep the stimulation outside and still achieve a squirting climax?

Obviously, I'm talking about a wand massager. If she feels like she "holds in the pee", you would be able to just flip the intensity up a notch - and voila.
03/11/2019
Contributor: Orgasms & Pearls Orgasms & Pearls
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Originally posted by GingerAnn
Dear Gabler, and how about taking that clit stimulation to the next level? Bringing in something way more power than Vanity might be your way to go - especially if you say your wife is not particularly fond of thrusting, maybe you can keep the ... more
Following up on what Gingerann said, clit stimulation is huge for me also. It does not make me squirt alone, but it definitely helps me get in the mood. My fave toy to use is my We-Vibe Touch. I heard the tango is even better, just haven’t tried it myself yet.
03/20/2019