What dimensions do you like?

Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Me, I like 'em girthy but short. But there's a huge selection to choose from, and I'm curious what people like. So, what about you?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Short and thin
EJ , Rin (aka Nire) , LadyDarknezz , Missmarc
4
Short and medium girth
EJ , Rin (aka Nire) , sarki
3
Short and fat
carenautilus
1
Medium lenght and thin
EJ , K101 , QSBybakd , charletnarouh , sweetpea12 , Missmarc
6
Medium length a girth
Rossie , EJ , Gunsmoke , Redboxbaby , ToyBoy , SilverIsis , dhig , -BillD , slynch , zracer , wetone123 , PassionQT , Neurogasm , CAKES , Chou Wang , Anjulie , AshMegYo , Pink Jewel , ellejay , OhMy! , DreamWolf , QSBybakd , ninja250 , Apirka , melissa1973 , Gracie
26
Medium length and fat
domsub1993 , Redboxbaby , CreamySweet , JessCee , SexyTabby , PassionQT , Shellz31 , Apirka , asphyxia
9
Long and thin
QSBybakd
1
Long and medium girth
LQ , AngelvMaynard , Gunsmoke , unfulfilled , DeliciousSurprise , Redboxbaby , wetone123 , Beck , Neurogasm , OhMy! , K101 , QSBybakd , cottonxcandy
13
Long and fat
Sex'и'Violence , Redboxbaby , CreamySweet , slynch , SexyTabby , PassionQT , potstickers , Incendiaire
8
Depends on my mood/other
LQ , Gunsmoke , Sex'и'Violence , dv8 , DeliciousSurprise , Redboxbaby , slynch , SexyTabby , Taylor , Neurogasm , AndroAngel , Chou Wang , SparklingReviews , helpmeplease , DreamWolf
15
Total votes: 86 (54 voters)
Poll is closed
09/22/2011
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09/22/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I like them 6 to 7 inches long, and about 1.5" in diameter.
09/22/2011
Contributor: LQ LQ
I'm still kinda figuring this out as it really depends on the particular toy. Dimensions that wouldn't bother me on a real penis or a squishy vibe might be totally intolerable in a very hard/inflexible vibe. Or size may be okay, but the various bumps or whorls or ribs "for her pleasure" may be giving me chafing instead of pleasure.

Also, just when I figured out what circumference range sounded good, I ran into a slew of information/reviews with diameter mentioned instead & had to do math. Hehe.

The 1:1 feature here is the best thing ever, & helps a lot, but it still isn't the same as seeing the thing live. A visit to my local shop the other day was... enlightening... until I ran away in fear. Haha.

Then again, things that look too big when they're just sitting there may end up being fine in actual use.

Sooo... there's my newbie with very limited experience answer.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
This is going to be tough poll to decipher. Everyone's definition of long, short, thin and girth are different. My wife likes about 1.75" diameter - that's big for some - but modest for others. Likewise she prefers 6-7" long - is that long? Yest compared to 4-5" toys, but it's not compared to 8-9" toys. Good luck figuring this one out.
09/22/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I was going to say something like gunsmoke said. Everyone's definition of long, short, and girth is going to be different. What I consider long may not be waht you consider long. Also, everyone's body is different and there is too much length and girth but it again depends on the body and their preference.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Long and thick. But it really depends on my mood.
09/22/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by carenautilus
Me, I like 'em girthy but short. But there's a huge selection to choose from, and I'm curious what people like. So, what about you?
My husband is a little over 7... and nice n thick which feels great in all positions. My boytoy gym trainer is almost 9 and way thick from the yummy cummmy tip to balls. I like to feel him filling me but only in some positions
09/22/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Quote:
Originally posted by LQ
I'm still kinda figuring this out as it really depends on the particular toy. Dimensions that wouldn't bother me on a real penis or a squishy vibe might be totally intolerable in a very hard/inflexible vibe. Or size may be okay, but the ... more
I totally know what you mean about the material of the toy being a big factor. I love my glass dildos enormously, but I'm not getting anything to big in glass. Glass and metal pack a lot of punch!

Silicone, though, that's where I go all size queen.
09/23/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
This is going to be tough poll to decipher. Everyone's definition of long, short, thin and girth are different. My wife likes about 1.75" diameter - that's big for some - but modest for others. Likewise she prefers 6-7" long - is ... more
Er, yes, point. *embarrassed cough*
09/23/2011
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I like to feel full . It's more a girth thing than length.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Depends greatly on the particular toy, but in general I like a diameter of 1" to 1.25" - though if there's a taper I can handle something a bit larger - and a length of 4" or under (my vaginal canal is pretty short). Though with some toys, a little extra length makes for a nice handle.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Neurogasm Neurogasm
Love feeling full, so girth is a must, but if it's too thick, I can't get it in. XD;; But the length needs to be enough for me to feel the base. That's just a hang-up of mine, really.
09/23/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
My Lover's dick is long and girthy, most of my toys (the Eleven being a notable exception) are small or medium size.
09/23/2011
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Insertion is always painful for me, so I prefer petite toys.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
I prefer 1.5pm diameter & 7.25in length
09/23/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Quote:
Originally posted by LadyDarknezz
Insertion is always painful for me, so I prefer petite toys.
My partner has pretty similar tastes. She tends to prefer silicone, too. Definitely no glass or metal!
09/24/2011
Contributor: SparklingReviews SparklingReviews
I need a smaller toy in girth, but am working up to larger ones.
09/24/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Not too short but not too long and only medium width
09/28/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I love them at a medium length and girthy!!!
09/29/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Most of the toys described as girthy or even medium will not fit! I hate when that happens because I've bought vibes that look ok, but absolutely never were able to go internally! It's a pain. So my preference is medium and a thin sometimes and no bigger than 1 1/2 is good. My partner is bigger than all of my toys so it gave me trouble when choosing because I'd think if I get them about the same size as him then they'll be a great fit. Sadly I learned the hard way that fitting a real penis in there isn't half as difficult as fitting silicone! LOl.
09/29/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
This is going to be tough poll to decipher. Everyone's definition of long, short, thin and girth are different. My wife likes about 1.75" diameter - that's big for some - but modest for others. Likewise she prefers 6-7" long - is ... more
This was an excellent post. I was going to say "long and thick" and thought about the review I saw of the Big Hoss (or whatever it is called) and was like "no way..".
09/29/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
Most of the toys described as girthy or even medium will not fit! I hate when that happens because I've bought vibes that look ok, but absolutely never were able to go internally! It's a pain. So my preference is medium and a thin sometimes ... more
Too true!
09/29/2011
Contributor: QSBybakd QSBybakd
I like medium to long toys between 1" and 1.5" in girth (preferably tapered or contoured).
01/22/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
I'm built very small and I'm tight and my g-spot is really shallow so I don't need much size. Girthy toys hurt and long misses my g-spot and anything that goes too deep isn't comfortable. I'm a lesbian, which some would say is fortunate because I get to pick the size of my partner's "penis", unlike a man's which you're kind of stuck with what they've got. However, many of my exes have been offended by how small the dildos I wanted them to use were. They took it, like, personally, or something. Like, seriously, it may be small-ish but it WORKS for me. Shouldn't that be more important than your damned ego. It's not like it's really attached to you. Wear a big one around the house for all I freaking care. Sorry. Rant off.
01/22/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
Medium length, medium to large girth.
03/19/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I like mine long with medium girth.
03/19/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by carenautilus
Me, I like 'em girthy but short. But there's a huge selection to choose from, and I'm curious what people like. So, what about you?
I really wish I could take a big toy but I totally can't I ilke medium long and medium girth in a vibrator
03/19/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
I like them 6 to 7 inches long, and about 1.5" in diameter.
Me too! I can go to 1.75, 1.5 is just right.
03/19/2012