Perceptive forum discussions on Penetration:

during solo play how many toys do you use?
for instance....nipple toy with vibrator, double penetration, vibrating cock ring on a dildo.

any other good combos?

did you cum the first time
was just curious if most men orgasm on there first anal penetration. like most know, women dont when theyre virginity (vaginal) is lost.

Guys, have you ever thought about or used a Realdoe...
Guy, have you ever thought about, or used, a Realdoe for double penetration, where by the bulb is inserted into your ass so you basically have two...

anal health
I hear a lot of debate over whether anal penetration is safe and healthy, which can be concerning for the long term effects... recently heard that...

Can the Pure Wand do it if penetration usually doesn't?
The reviews for the Pure Wand are overwhelmly positive. It sounds like almost everyone can climax with it. I'm wondering if there are women who...

I might talk to her and let her pick something. Do a "we want you to know that masturbation is healthy and normal, we just want you to do it safely, here's your price range, pick anything you want" or something like that. I think that it would be a much better idea to give a teenager a sex toy than to let them accidentally get hurt masturbating with something that isn't safe.

I would definitely talk to the girl and offer to help her find something more appropriate. That way she has some input in the process, and you're just dropping a toy with a note attached. Whatever you help her get, I would aim for the safest material available in that price range, and I would talk about the importance of keeping toys clean. It might be good to get her some lube too, so she doesn't use something inappropriate for that purpose either.

depending on your relationship with the daughter, either leaving a note or discussing it with her may feel awkward so use discretion in whichever you choose. you don't want to make her first toy experience weird because her mom's friend gave it to her. maybe get her one of those dicrete ones that don't look like vibrators. that way you can just leave it on her bed and let her experiment with something safer.

If she's experimenting with penetration, I'd probably get her a dildo rather than a vibrator, so she can keep doing what comes naturally, but with something safe that is designed for that purpose. I'd probably get her a small silicone dildo in a fun color. A gift card and some product suggestions would probably be nice also.

I think it's awesome that she has someone like you who can help her out. My first "vibrator" was one of those twirly pens and then one I got at Spencers. It would've been great to have someone older to talk to.