Definitely invest in the Ella! While she doesn't work for everybody (I still have yet to achieve a g-spot orgasm or squirt with her, but there are other factors that affect this) she has been a miracle for some. Even if she doesn't quite take you there, she definitely targets the g-spot really well, is made of a safe material, and doesn't cost a whole lot.

My wife has to be really worked up for the Ella to work on her. If she hasn't already orgasmed or isn't close it isn't much fun for her. Haven't made her squirt yet but still trying.

I agree that a rabbit probably won't do it for you as well as a g-spot dildo or vibrator.

Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the tub so it wouldn't matter even if you do pee. As long as you're afraid of peeing you won't be successful.

I also find that it helps to have a little pee in your bladder. It increases sensation. I've only managed a g-gasm on an empty bladder once, but it happens reliably if my bladder isn't empty.

Definitely. I like to practice in the shower; if I do pee it's not a big deal. Plus, it's one of my favorite places to play.

Some other tips I've picked up from hanging out here:
-Keep yourself hydrated
-Have a mostly empty to fully empty bladder (it varies for the person)
-Relax. Don't be so hard on yourself if you don't come.
-Relax. If you pee, you pee. If you squirt, awesome! But you'll never know if you don't let go!

Also, some people say they prefer more firm pressure that glass or metal can give versus the "softer" silicone of the Ella. I don't know your price range, but the Ella is probably the least expensive model of the three materials. When you're shopping, just be sure to keep an eye out for the more "hooked" end which is typical of a g-spot dildo.

Everyone is different, but personally, interior vibrations do very little for me. So even though the Gigi and other high-quality g-spot vibrators look divine, I don't know if they'd actually be any better.

Good luck!

I never thought about getting a Fasinator. How long have you had yours and how well has it lasted? Is it machine washable?

I love velvety toys and it looks really hot in black.

I don't know glass dildos scare me a little I can be very clumsy and I am sure I would drop it. Have you used one? How sturdy are they?

I really loved you sugar drop review and I loved the stand it seems really cute.

I did drop it once on a tile floor. It didn't break. They're not that fragile for glass. Now I make sure I always have a firm grip on it though. I might not be so lucky the second time. Even with the breakage risk, glass is worth it.

Has she tried it on herself? I think that might make a difference. That way she'll be sure to have just the right rhythm.

I have been checking out the glass toys and I think I want the Rainbow mega nubby. If it is glass do you think it needs to be curved as well for a g-spot orgasm?

I can envision the bottom of the entrance to my vagina being brutally injured if I tried to use the Rainbow Mega Nubby like that... The problem is that you'd have to sharply angle it to hit your G, and the nubs would be causing a lot of friction to your entrance.

Even if I use a smooth, plastic vibrator to hit my g-spot, I can get really sore. Curve is really important.

Definitely go for something curved. Try the G-Spot Gemstone if you're not looking to spend a lot of money.

I've been wondering that too. I think the reason people like the rainbow mega nubby so much must be because it reaches the g-spot. I think you could angle it to reach the g-spot. Straight insertable vibrators stimulate the g-spot.

The g-spot gemstone looks like it has a pointy tip. Toys with pointy tips irritate me.

The handle on the G-Spot Gemstone doesn't look large enough for me. From some of the descriptions it seems so small. I really think I might need something with length to stimulate it myself.

I know pointy and small does not sound like a great time to me.

I have experienced many g spot orgasms, in my 10 years of sexual activity, but had never squirted until the last few months. I don't know that the one is necessarily associated with the other.