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Contributor: 40&horny 40&horny
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I spent over half my life thinking there was something wrong with me because I could not orgasm. Not from oral or vaginal sex. At 39, I think I had a total of 3 orgasms my ENTIRE life. I purchased my first B.O.B. about 6 months ago which was a Multi function
G-spot rabbit vibrator. Within minutes i achieved orgasm and still do to this day.

My question is - are you able to orgasm with just vaginal sex or do you require clitoral stimulation at the same time to get the job done.
02/08/2021
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Contributor: Artemiss Artemiss
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Originally posted by 40&horny
I spent over half my life thinking there was something wrong with me because I could not orgasm. Not from oral or vaginal sex. At 39, I think I had a total of 3 orgasms my ENTIRE life. I purchased my first B.O.B. about 6 months ago which was a ... more
For me almost alway just clitoral stimulation. I was also the same way, I never orgasmed until years after I first started to explore my sexuality.
02/15/2021
Contributor: I preferred a mix between the two I preferred a mix between the two
Your not the only one who has that issue it happens to alot of women
02/21/2021
Contributor: littleislandgirl littleislandgirl
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Originally posted by 40&horny
I spent over half my life thinking there was something wrong with me because I could not orgasm. Not from oral or vaginal sex. At 39, I think I had a total of 3 orgasms my ENTIRE life. I purchased my first B.O.B. about 6 months ago which was a ... more
I have never been able to orgasm with just vaginal sex! After a couple years I realized I needed a lot of stimulation from my partner. Oral with vaginal and slight anal penetration all at the same time lol I haven't yet tried with toys or vibrators so its quite a bit of hand work for my partner but if its just oral/clit stimulation (even though its amazing head) I'd be there all day and still haven't got the big O.
02/24/2021
Contributor: CuriousFun CuriousFun
I've been able to orgasm from vaginal penetration alone only rarely. I have the best (and easiest) orgasms from both vaginal and clitoral stimulation (with nipple and anal stimulation as added bonuses, though they're not strictly necessary). I technically *can* reach orgasm from clitoral stimulation alone, but it usually takes more time and effort than I'd like, and those climaxes tend to be a little lack-luster, so I always prefer dual stimulation.

You're not alone and you're not at all unusual. Most women need clitoral stimulation to get off. If anything, women who can orgasm from vaginal penetration alone are the exception rather than the rule.
02/25/2021
Contributor: Robin Goodfellow Robin Goodfellow
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Originally posted by 40&horny
I spent over half my life thinking there was something wrong with me because I could not orgasm. Not from oral or vaginal sex. At 39, I think I had a total of 3 orgasms my ENTIRE life. I purchased my first B.O.B. about 6 months ago which was a ... more
My wife/sub very very seldomly orgasms from vaginal sex without clit stimulation. Probably only orgasms 5-10% of the time via G-spot stimulation.

She actually can orgasm much easier without clit stimulation anally.
She orgasms during anal sex without clit stimulation about 60% of the time.
When she rides me anally(so the clit is getting incidental contact) she orgasms about 90% of the time.
02/26/2021
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
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Originally posted by 40&horny
I spent over half my life thinking there was something wrong with me because I could not orgasm. Not from oral or vaginal sex. At 39, I think I had a total of 3 orgasms my ENTIRE life. I purchased my first B.O.B. about 6 months ago which was a ... more
Definitely need the clit stimulation to get the job done!
03/20/2021
Contributor: Lucretia Maiden Lucretia Maiden
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Originally posted by 40&horny
I spent over half my life thinking there was something wrong with me because I could not orgasm. Not from oral or vaginal sex. At 39, I think I had a total of 3 orgasms my ENTIRE life. I purchased my first B.O.B. about 6 months ago which was a ... more
I mostly rely on vaginal penetration to orgasm, but the vast majority of females prefer and need clitoral stimulation for that. Keep in mind that for most women playing with their clits is enough to climax and there is no need to combine penetration with it (unless they want to obviously) so don't worry you are perfectly normal.
03/21/2021
Contributor: I preferred a mix between the two I preferred a mix between the two
I have issues with it too but I have a medical condition called vaginismus but some people get off with both
04/18/2021
Contributor: Bunnybun Bunnybun
Well I'm completely anorgasmic, never had an orgasm in my life with either but I've grown to enjoy clitoral stimulation recently, it's still a very NEW and overwhelming sensation to me so it takes a bit getting used to. But penetration is always more comfortable for me because it's more "familiar"
11/23/2021
Contributor: abee abee
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Originally posted by 40&horny
I spent over half my life thinking there was something wrong with me because I could not orgasm. Not from oral or vaginal sex. At 39, I think I had a total of 3 orgasms my ENTIRE life. I purchased my first B.O.B. about 6 months ago which was a ... more
The clit stim is a MUST for me. G-spot stimulation, whether with a human or a vibe, can feel amazing but never quite gets me over the edge. These days I've gotten spoiled with all my toys, so now it's actually harder to orgasm without a vibrator both in and on me, but for most of my sexually active life, I've been able to get off just with clit stimulation and anything else is a bonus but won't do the job on its own.

I've also never been able to get off with a partner, which I think is a common problem for people who have a hard time letting themselves go with someone else ... but definitely isn't improved by the fact that none of my partners have put in much effort. I don't know how your partners have ranked in that department, but it doesn't surprise me at all that it took a vibrator to get you orgasming since finding partners who are skilled and patient enough is apparently a very tall order.
11/25/2021