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Contributor: KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
Are you comfortable being completely honest with you BF/GF about your Fetishes or Fantasies of the bat?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, I'm not embarrassed about my wants and needs
28  (68%)
No, I'm shy
No, I wait until we've been together for longer then 6 months
Yes, but to an extent... gotta keep them wondering
6  (15%)
indifferent, I pick and choose the ones that aren't that extreme but keep my deepest fantasies to myself
7  (17%)
I do not share my fantasies with a BF/GF maybe my Wife/Husband
Total votes: 41
Poll is closed
03/10/2012
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Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
I am generally open about what I want and need
03/10/2012
Contributor: Various Various
I am more suggestive about that things I want. Like when I was interested in anal play some plugs just 'appeared' one day on the side table.
03/10/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I am generally very open, but not about things I know he dislikes.
03/10/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
I am very open with my husband.
03/10/2012
Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I try to be open, but I get shy...
03/10/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I am very open.
03/10/2012
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
I am generally very open, but not about things I know he dislikes.
This. I'm open about most things, but, not about stuff I know he'd not be into and also things that are a bit more... out there that stay strictly in the realm of fantasy.
03/10/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
I am pretty damn open, though not always straight-forwardsly so.
03/10/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I'm pretty open.
03/11/2012
Contributor: Djiffy Djiffy
I'm quite open with my girlfriend, even when she'd rather I not be.
03/11/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatiya
Are you comfortable being completely honest with you BF/GF about your Fetishes or Fantasies of the bat?
I'm open if my partner is curious but I'm also content to just ask for what I want without bringing fantasy into the picture should my partner not be interested in why I am interested!
03/11/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I'm 100% open.
03/11/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
Very open
03/11/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Almost always 100% open now.
03/11/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
Very open about what I need/want/enjoy. If it's something I know a partner dislikes or isn't comfortable with, I'll be very open about the fact that I like or want it but I won't push for it. If it's something I can't live without, I'd be honest, but it would probably be a deal breaker if they couldn't at least try it.
03/11/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatiya
Are you comfortable being completely honest with you BF/GF about your Fetishes or Fantasies of the bat?
Totally depends on the person that I have to share with
03/11/2012
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I've only had one serious boyfriend, and he's the only guy I've slept with, but he knows all my fantasies!
03/11/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
I love to share and so does he.
03/11/2012