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Contributor: MomOf4 MomOf4
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What's some toys to introduce into a bedroom to help in a relationship?

My Husband and myself have never had issues with out sex life, and had used toys in the past but stopped all cause we learned we didn't need them, but now cause of a gym injury he suffers from acute E.D. so were trying to start back into using toys to help, neither one of us is into any kind of butt stuff, and I hate using clamps, it's more so vibrators and dildos cause it makes him horny watching me move round with excitement and get off by them before he does anything sexual.

So what's some toys to use? Could be dildos or viberator, anything to use in the shower, foreplay, I'm needing ideas and some playtime ideas....
03/22/2023
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Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by MomOf4
What's some toys to introduce into a bedroom to help in a relationship?

My Husband and myself have never had issues with out sex life, and had used toys in the past but stopped all cause we learned we didn't need them, but now cause of ... more
Well it depends then on what you like. Are you into the vibes or something filling? Would you prefer a challenge that’s sizeable or something more bumpy/ribbed? Having a basic idea of what you aim to accomplish would help guide you. Are you looking for yourself to entice him or for him to enjoy you using?
03/22/2023
Contributor: Paradocs Paradocs
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Originally posted by MomOf4
What's some toys to introduce into a bedroom to help in a relationship?

My Husband and myself have never had issues with out sex life, and had used toys in the past but stopped all cause we learned we didn't need them, but now cause of ... more
I would suggest starting simple. For example, a bullet toy such as Rose Gold provides amazing clitoral stimulation and visually it will drive him crazy. Don't forget about air pulsation toys too. These provide a different sensation which can be incredible. A good option is the Naughty Rose which is fabulous for both foreplay and clitoral orgasms. If you are looking for dildos, consider a glass toy. These are smooth, and once again, provide great visuals for him. Finally, the Pulsar and Dual Glow are great thrusting dildos which he could hold while you lie back and enjoy!
03/22/2023
Contributor: Lisa From EdenFantasys Lisa From EdenFantasys
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Originally posted by MomOf4
What's some toys to introduce into a bedroom to help in a relationship?

My Husband and myself have never had issues with out sex life, and had used toys in the past but stopped all cause we learned we didn't need them, but now cause of ... more
Hey MomOf4,

Would suggest you start with foreplay vibes like finger vibes, massager (with attachments) and oral imitators:
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Then you can try some rabbits or G-spot toys or even machines
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Also don't forget about sexy lingerie for him to enjoy your stunning look

Regards,
Lisa
03/23/2023
Contributor: MattWillTry MattWillTry
I'll suggest some less mainstream toys that you may not even know exist!

If you and/or him are into nipple play, vibrating nipple teasers could be a great try! (Gentle suction to attach, not clamping) Some options are nipplelink or link. I have experience with the first option which stays on well for a smooth area around the nipples (no hair).

Another option which could add to putting on a 'show' are nipple/clit/vagina pumps to enlarge/puff up your parts for a view! I don't personally have experience with these but something like link or link.
04/15/2023
Contributor: mentalhealthmatters mentalhealthmatters
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Originally posted by MomOf4
What's some toys to introduce into a bedroom to help in a relationship?

My Husband and myself have never had issues with out sex life, and had used toys in the past but stopped all cause we learned we didn't need them, but now cause of ... more
I highly suggest the intimate diver

It is super easy to use, as versatile as your hands, and very satisfying

A great toy for someone new - but still great for those of us who just want a reliable fix

For more details you can check out my full length review at:
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04/22/2023
Contributor: JustTinMan JustTinMan
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Originally posted by MomOf4
What's some toys to introduce into a bedroom to help in a relationship?

My Husband and myself have never had issues with out sex life, and had used toys in the past but stopped all cause we learned we didn't need them, but now cause of ... more
Wife here.

I think the important thing is that you like whatever you are using. Trust me, if you are supper into, he will be as well.

I personally find myself rarely using any suction cupped dongs unless I'm in the shower or bath. Sometimes I will stick one to the lid of the toilet, and then sit on the toilet backwards, and ride it that way.

I prefer smaller toys as I like to masturbate kind offast/hard, and with a big toy I can't do that... so I keep length at or under 6 inches, about 5" is perfect for me. I like toys that have balls or some type of base because it adds clit stimulation.

Most days I like slimmer toys < 1.25" wide, because again, I like it fast/hard... and I can't do that with bigger toys. I do occasionally like the feeling of being stretched. I have an inflatable dildo that starts at 1.5", which all ready feels me up nicely, but give it a few pumps to about 2" wide and OMG, it feels like I'm being ripped apart, and that stretch gets me off super hard...

Like boobies, vaginas come in different sizes... you have to find what feels good to you.
06/24/2023