My First Time...Is It Normal?

Contributor: Luna Lopez Luna Lopez
I bought my-self, my first vibrator the other day; it will be here on monday, but I find my-self intimidted by the thougth of using it. Is that normal for a first time toy?
11/16/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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11/16/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Yes, it's normal! Just remember to relax and enjoy!
11/16/2012
Contributor: Luna Lopez Luna Lopez
really its normal? i thought i was just weird :/ thankz
11/16/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I was nervous about using my first one but now I love them. Relax and enjoy congrats on your first vibe
11/16/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Its normal but its so worth it :] just enjoy it.
11/16/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
sometimes I feel intimidated because when you sit down to masturbate, it's easy to feel like your "goal" is orgasm, and that you failed if you didn't make it.

I have to remind myself that there are no grades...just fun Don't be sad if it doesn't work out the first time...totally normal.

I am happy you bought your first one! I really think my first one changed my life.
11/16/2012
Contributor: Virgingasms Virgingasms
This is exactly how I felt when I ordered my first toys last year. Just remember to have fun and not pressure yourself. Explore the sensations instead of pushing yourself.
11/17/2012
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
It's perfectly normal to feel nervous.
11/17/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Luna Lopez
I bought my-self, my first vibrator the other day; it will be here on monday, but I find my-self intimidted by the thougth of using it. Is that normal for a first time toy?
Of course that's normal! I think a lot of us have felt intimidating, just like you do when you lose your virginity. However, as long as it's not something too scary in size or anything, you have good reason to stay calm. Just go slow when you get it.
11/17/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Just make sure you lock the door.
11/17/2012
Contributor: candice8284 candice8284
Quote:
Originally posted by Luna Lopez
I bought my-self, my first vibrator the other day; it will be here on monday, but I find my-self intimidted by the thougth of using it. Is that normal for a first time toy?
Very normal! I was scared that I was going to hurt myself. HAHA!
11/19/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
it can be especially if you got one too big.
11/19/2012
Contributor: munroeal84 munroeal84
My first vibrator I bought was online because I was too embarrassed to go into a Porn Shop to buy one, but now I only go to the store because I am picky about what I use. So I would say it is normal to be a little intimidated
11/23/2012
Contributor: levellc09 levellc09
I was not nervous but rather excited to experience what a orgasm actually felt like.
11/23/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
It's normal to be nervous about trying something new, especially with your sexuality. Just relax and enjoy yourself.
11/23/2012
Contributor: Rraine Rraine
It is completely normal! Just relax and enjoy yourself.
11/25/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
yes it's completely normal and it also might hurt the first time you use it just relax and try to enjoy yourself
11/25/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
Sure that's normal. But once you use it, you'll wonder what you were so nervous about and love it. That's the way it was with me.
11/25/2012
Contributor: froggygal91 froggygal91
Just relax and have some fun
12/03/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
New things are always scary. It's a learning curve that is sometimes awkward, and fun and weird, but we've all been there.
12/03/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Take a deep breath and relax. Have fun!
12/03/2012
Contributor: boooooo boooooo
I was totally intimidated by my first vibrator. After I turned it on, that lasted like ... ten seconds lol.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Awux Awux
Quote:
Originally posted by Luna Lopez
I bought my-self, my first vibrator the other day; it will be here on monday, but I find my-self intimidted by the thougth of using it. Is that normal for a first time toy?
I felt the same way. You'll get used to it(:
12/25/2012
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Aw, normal!
12/25/2012
Contributor: froggygal91 froggygal91
Completely.
12/26/2012
Contributor: lucyntheshy lucyntheshy
i agree its diffrentits scary its naughty but after you lighten up i never looked back!
12/28/2012
Contributor: ARPKasso ARPKasso
Very Normal.
12/28/2012