Looking for a Massager for Couple Use...

Contributor: BoomersGirl BoomersGirl
My hubby and I are a happily married couple with 6 kids in our late 30s. I am interested in a massager that would benefit both of us. I have a Hitachi-type full size wand that we never use. The tip pulls his hair (he's a hairy fella all over). And the vibrations are way too powerful for me "down there". Like I can't even touch it there, although most toys are not nearly powerful enough.

I think I'm kind of looking at the smaller vibrators. Noise isn't a huge concern, although our daughter is in the room next to ours (age 11) so we don't want something too noisy. I'd like something that offers muliple speeds and/or functions so I have a powerful enough (but not too intense) setting to pick from for the sensitive clitoral area, but powerful enough for full-body type massage. I'd also like something that offers attachments.

So here are my questions:
Which massager would you recommend and why?
How noisy is it?
What attachments would you recommend? (keeping in mind I generally don't use insertable toys for that purpose - I prefer clitoral stimulation - esp. if it can be used DURING intercourse without getting in the way too much)

Thanks for your help!
06/03/2010
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Quote:
Originally posted by BoomersGirl
My hubby and I are a happily married couple with 6 kids in our late 30s. I am interested in a massager that would benefit both of us. I have a Hitachi-type full size wand that we never use. The tip pulls his hair (he's a hairy fella all over). ... more
While I have no experience my friend claims that her and her husband are pleased with the Fairy Mini (which was listed above). She is always ranting about how much pleasure they obtain, when of course I say I wish for a Hitachi.
06/03/2010