How about a Tenga Flip Hole or a Fleshlight? Both would be great.

The Tor is a great pick!
Cock rings are good if he's shown an interest in them before. In my own head, I equate them to rabbits--they can be a bit intimidating to an unsuspecting person.

I'm with B8trDude and Goth--if you don't have a problem with his masturbating, a tenga or fleshlight would be good. I got my sweetheart the LELO Bob after he expressed a passing interest in prostate stimulation, and it was perfect. It wasn't a cheesy first time, and the sincerity of such a nice gift eased his mind a bit that I wouldn't make fun of him or his interests. Bob opened up a new door for us.

Thank you for your suggestions guys!! I really appreciate it!

Fantastic review. Made me add it to my wish list!

I'm considering buying this toy, but I just want to explain how I use vibrating cock rings and how I know others use them based on posts I have seen on the Around Her Finger site and other places. I'm submissive, so it's important to me to be able to engage in intimacy where my wife has orgasms but I do not. Often, I'll give her massages, followed by oral sex, and then follow that with intercourse. With a cock ring at the base of my shaft and stretched around the scrotum, it 1) gives me better control to prevent climaxing, and 2) provides her the stimulation against her clit when I push inside her and hold the ring in position against her. It's been very easy to do this with the stretch/gelly rings I have used in the past... as I can push the vibrating part forward a bit to touch her clit... but I hate dealing with batteries and the rings are prone to breaking. I'm hoping the Tor has enough stretch to push forward and also has greater vibrations than the cheap rings.

Tenga flip or maybe a nice cock ring

thank you