I only use Jo. It's my fav! I have h20 for women, h20 for women agape warming, h20 raspberry, h20 strawberry, h20 pomegranate, and h20 anal. I think it is the best you can get, and it's safe with all my toys! Silky, long-lasting, and easy to clean up. I have a couple Jo reviews if you want to look at them.