Well not sure the toy is your problem you just may need a better lube. Lelo toys keep you wet >.> and gushing

IMHO it's not the vibe, although some materials require adding lube, it's that you stop lubricating. I might be totally wrong but it works (or rather stops working) the same for me. I'm a special case - a fetishist. I need specific fantasies to maintain arousal - otherwise even my Amethyst won't stop me from drying up. It might be that using the toy brings you out of your game - it disrupts the arousal you built up in your head.

Whatever it is, I second the suggestion for good lube. Silicone, if your toy can take it.

I think you may wanna try lube called "Pink", very helpful thing

Thanks for all the help i will def check into these options