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Contributor: Martin84 Martin84
Hi, I need a little help. I'm 27 years old and my girlfriend is 23. It really turns me on when I know the girl enjoys it, and throughout the years I've been fortunate to have a lot of girls teach me exactly how they like it, and I've never failed to get any of them off...until now :/

When I met my girl two month ago, she told me she had never tried oral sex or had an orgasm. As a guy that _loves_ to lick the girl I immediately thought..oh just you wait beauty <3. Well, it started out great..she loved it...moaned..and then suddenly she started to giggle and pushed me away. She said it started to tingle so I thought she almost had her first orgasm. We tried again and I told her to just relax and enjoy it. She really tried but the same happened..she said it felt like she was about to pee and it tingled like crazy. The only times I've experienced this is when the girl has an orgasm and I keep licking her, or if I lick her too soon afterwards naturally =) Anyway, to keep it short..I've tried all the tricks in the book I know of, and had her guide me and tell exactly how she likes it. The sex is amazing and we fuck like rabbits all the time, but it just gets too tingly in the end when I lick her :/ I would like to surprise her with something from Lelo, but I don't know which it should be. We have already been looking at the we-vibe 3 together, but the Lelo products seem better based on reviews. What would you girls suggest based on the above?

Thank you and sorry for my English =)
09/25/2012
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Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I would suggest the Lelo Insignia Soraya. It is expensive, but well worth it and dual-stimulating which could help your girlfriend achieve orgasm.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Well if it has to be lelo I would suggest Gigi. It works well as a g-spot vibe or you can use it as a clit vibe. I love my gigi, but it is not what I would call a strong toy. There are 2 clit vibes I like better one is Mimi by jejoue and the other is tango by wevibe. My preference is for vibes that are broad, strong and deep and rumbly and that you can use to apply pressure. Some women prefer different types of vibrations, so be prepared to try a few till you discover what her preferences are.

By the way your English is great! Where are you from? Welcome to EF! Happy shopping!
09/25/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Well, first, I really hate oral so maybe she's one that just gets a weird sensation and won't like it as much as other girls?

Aside from that, I find LELO toys lacking in power. The few I like are the Mia, GiGi (which is weak but the shape is nice), and the Lyla 2.

You may want to try some cheaper options first to see what types of vibrations she likes. If she's more on the sensitive side she may like the weaker vibrations. If she needs power, LELO isn't the way to go.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Have you tried different positions, motions, and fingering? I'd suggest getting something small and inexpensive and find out if she likes the vibration feeling at all.
09/27/2012
Contributor: Martin84 Martin84
Quote:
Originally posted by Gracie
Well if it has to be lelo I would suggest Gigi. It works well as a g-spot vibe or you can use it as a clit vibe. I love my gigi, but it is not what I would call a strong toy. There are 2 clit vibes I like better one is Mimi by jejoue and the other ... more
Hi, I have been looking at the Gigi but the lack of power as you say, just makes it a bit less attractive. I actually think it's going to be the Mona 2, since I think she'll love the width of it based on what she has told me.
As for the clit vibes..well, since she gets that tingling feeling I'm afraid it'll be a waste of money. On the other hand, it might just be what she needs but then you can just use the Mona 2 on the outside, right? =)

And thank you, I'm from Denmark =)
09/28/2012
Contributor: Martin84 Martin84
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
Well, first, I really hate oral so maybe she's one that just gets a weird sensation and won't like it as much as other girls?

Aside from that, I find LELO toys lacking in power. The few I like are the Mia, GiGi (which is weak but the ... more
I'm pretty sure she doesn't hate it =) She has just asked me to lick her several times now, and also out of the blue when we are watching a movie. But I was wondering that myself the first few times. I've also asked her and she says she really does love it =)

As for a cheaper model, we both just got turned off by most of them when we visited a sex shop, so something like a Lelo Mona with variable speed and rhythms seem to be the perfect toy. And as I wrote to Gracie, I actually think it's going to be the Mona 2, so hopefully it wont be necessary to shop for something else afterwards =)
09/28/2012
Contributor: Martin84 Martin84
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Have you tried different positions, motions, and fingering? I'd suggest getting something small and inexpensive and find out if she likes the vibration feeling at all.
I have yes, it's still the same =) Feels great but she gets that tingling sensation in the end.
09/28/2012
Contributor: Martin84 Martin84
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Originally posted by AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I would suggest the Lelo Insignia Soraya. It is expensive, but well worth it and dual-stimulating which could help your girlfriend achieve orgasm.
It does look great, but it's pretty expensive yes and I'm so unsure about stimulation to her clit. Basically I was hoping some of you girls knew what she was talking about and could tell me, "been there myself, a clit vibrator was all I needed" or "I get the same feeling, don't get a clit vibrator or she'll will end up peeing like I did!".

I'm just a bit baffled by this since I haven't experienced it with any girl before.
09/28/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
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Originally posted by Martin84
It does look great, but it's pretty expensive yes and I'm so unsure about stimulation to her clit. Basically I was hoping some of you girls knew what she was talking about and could tell me, "been there myself, a clit vibrator was all I ... more
well the feeling of having to pee is really common right before female ejaculation so just be aware that this could happen when she organs but the liquid that comes out is most certainly not pee so neither of you should get embarrassed. I squirt all the time and it looks and smells nothing like urine, it's clear, and sometimes with a bit of a white hue and smells similar to my natural lubrication. I usually only squirt with internal and g-spot stimulation but it can happen externally as well its just less common.

I think Mona is a great choice, I've wanted it for a while so, I'm sure she'll love it
09/28/2012
Contributor: Martin84 Martin84
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Originally posted by Bex1331
well the feeling of having to pee is really common right before female ejaculation so just be aware that this could happen when she organs but the liquid that comes out is most certainly not pee so neither of you should get embarrassed. I squirt all ... more
I see, well if that was the case then I can certainly see why she would push me away, if she was afraid of what was going to happen. But still even if it was pee it wouldn't matter, that's why washing machines got invented, right hehe =) Anyway, thank you..I really think it's going to be the Mona and I can't wait to try it with her.

And thanks to the rest as well =)
09/28/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Sounds like she's going to squirt (female ejaculation), which can feel a lot like peeing, but the fluid is different. I do it any time I orgasm with a vibrator instead of my hands, and it took me a while to realize that I'm squirting, not peeing.

You might want to let her know about squirting - there's a ton of threads about it here on Eden. If she goes to the bathroom before you guys start, you can be sure that there won't be any actual urine. Get some towels and tell her to relax and not hold back, and see what happens.
09/28/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
You might consider the Je Joue Uma too. It works really well for a lot of people for being able to double as a g-spot/vaginal vibe and for clitoral too. Plus a lot of women say the length works great to use for clitoral during PIV sex with a partner. It doesn't have the girth of the Mona but it's really rumbly and strong.
10/02/2012