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Contributor: dangerzone dangerzone
Do you find even with toys it takes a long time getting off if so any suggestions to speed it up?
06/16/2013
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Contributor: Hentialover Hentialover
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Originally posted by dangerzone
Do you find even with toys it takes a long time getting off if so any suggestions to speed it up?
I have this problem -a lot-. It drives me crazy when I try to get off, and nothing happens but mild tingles. I would suggest trying some stimulants for your clit or vaginally. I tried this warming, tingling gel once, and it did help me quite a bit. I don't remember then name of the stuff, but I'm sure you can find something on EF.

If you haven't tried new fantasies, that can really help too, I find, personally. Sometimes you just get stuck in a rut. Some women are just very hard to please, and all you really need to do is try and find something that works for you.
06/17/2013
Contributor: ShortCak3 ShortCak3
For me, I like to use cooling gel on my clit and that helps a lot when used with a clit vibe and a g-spot dildo. I also like to think of fantasies, or sex in public, since its taboo.
06/20/2013
Contributor: babybluez babybluez
warm bath water
06/20/2013
Contributor: Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
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Originally posted by ShortCak3
For me, I like to use cooling gel on my clit and that helps a lot when used with a clit vibe and a g-spot dildo. I also like to think of fantasies, or sex in public, since its taboo.
Yes to "taboo" fantasies. Ours involve black men. Totally erotic for us.
08/28/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I occasionally watch nice porn with lots of cunnilingus scenes to boost my libido; then take my time and pleasure myself with the vibes or dildos that I love. Being anxious and trying to speed things up might prevent you from fully appreciating what you're doing and have negative results.
08/28/2013