G-spot stimulation with anal toy, or should I try something else?

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Bash323

Hi all. I hope this is the right place to post this; I wasn’t sure where it belongs.

I’m currently trying to find something I can use for g-spot stimulation but have very specific perimeters on what I’m looking for. I’m hoping someone will be able to help me.

I’m disabled, ace, and very tiny (4’9”, 104 lbs), and have never had partnered sex before. My muscles are tight because of my disability, and I’m afraid of pain, or possibly losing whatever toy inside.

As far as I can tell, I need a toy that is less than 1” in width, but most g-spot toys or dildos have a bulbous tip that I know I can’t handle. Contoured would probably be okay (a little tip at the top instead of a bulb).

So I’m considering the Booty Treat anal vibrator right now. Just not sure if it will work, and I already have so many toys I bought to try out that just don’t work for my body. If anyone has any other suggestions, I would appreciate it. Thank you so much for all your help.

Mar 24, 2:16 pm

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Leil@

(EdenFantasys)

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Originally posted by Bash323

Hey there! Admin is here

Thanks for reaching out – you’re absolutely in the right place, and I really appreciate how thoughtful you’re being about finding something that works for your body.

The Booty Treat could definitely be a good choice since it’s slim and designed for comfort. But if you’d like some more options, here are a few that might work well for you:

Double exciter – This has a very thin second shaft, which could be a great starting point, and if you feel comfortable, you can later try the thicker one.
Petite Treats G-spot – A classic, smooth, and slim option without texture, making it easier for gentle insertion.
Cupid – Also slim but with a slight beaded shape that might add gentle stimulation.
Unity – The C-shape is nice and thin, which could provide both g-spot and external stimulation.

One more vibrator, what goes not too deep and might be worth checking out too - Sweet bloom .

Also, if you have toys that didn’t work for you and you’re not sure what to do with them, we offer a recycling program! You can purchase a $5 voucher, and we’ll gladly recycle any number of toys for you. It’s an easy way to clear out space and dispose of them properly.

Hope this helps, and let me know if you have any other questions, will be glad to answer all of them

Mar 25, 12:06 pm

GingerAnn

Hey! I 100% agree with Leila, just wanted to throw a couple of recs from myself.
So we're looking for something thin and loosing-proof, all right

Kudos on the anal toys idea; they are usually super ergonomically compatible with the «finding the G spot” quest, although they lack the curve for more precision. You can always angle the Booty Treat, so I guess it could work, but pls mind that it is flexible, so it won’t offer much pressure.

I think a finger vibrator might be a good fit for you. It isn’t thick and you could never lose it since your wearing it over your finger, plus you can do the “come hither” motion which will a) find your spot b) stretch you a little bit softer.

Another great option would be something very small but with an option of insertion - the new Lust Bloom can be a good option. It has a clit stimulator on one side and a little thin shaft for penetration on another side, it's very small, kinda like a bullet vibrator but with a base, so you cannot lose it inside.

Oh, and loads of lube, of course
I really hope this helps!

Mar 26, 4:00 am

AnitaGoesWild

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Originally posted by Bash323

Wow. I can really feel how carefully you're approaching this, and I admire that so much about you. While I’m not in exactly the same situation, I do understand how discouraging it can be to try multiple toys that just don’t work for your body. You’re definitely not alone in that. It makes total sense that you’re looking for something slim and non-intimidating, and gentle on tight muscles especially as someone managing anxiety around discomfort.

I’ve heard good things about Lock the Cock's the Booty Treat, especially in terms of size and gentleness. Even though it's marketed as an anal toy, its shape might actually be exactly what you need for g-spot exploration, especially since it doesn’t have that aggressive bulb many g-spot toys have. I’d say if the material is soft and the curve is mild enough, it’s worth a try.

You might also want to look into very slim wands or curved vibrators, especially the ones from Lust Plugs, designed for external/internal combo use. Some are less than an inch wide at the tip and have a subtle curve instead of a bulb.

Mar 26, 10:34 am

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