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Guys, anal play: prostate massager vs. regular dildo/vibrator

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Contributor: bigfuckindicksDOTnet bigfuckindicksDOTnet 08/18/2011

which would you choose to purchase if it was time for your next toy investment and you were gonna spend a pretty good amount of money and you wanted to be satisfied. would you go for a regular penis shaped vibrator or dildo or one of the "special prostate massagers" ..

ive been looking at them (wearily) and they seem interesting but i just dont see how id use it regularly.. or how itd fit into my toy play for an extended period of time. i dont get them i guess is what im saying.

like the rude boys and toys shaped liek those...

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would you choose a regular vibrator or dildo or one specifically for prostate massage? (14 posts)
Contributor: bigfuckindicksDOTnet bigfuckindicksDOTnet
if you were going to get a new toy (as a guy) which would you go for.. (i might add the fact that i'm kind of bored with my regular Johnny hazzard cyberskin dildo lol)
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Gunsmoke , Howells , daveysgirl , dv8 , ToyTimeTim , Ghost , potstickers , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , sadwaltzes , MeliPixie , babyrock , Miss Anonymous , ScottA , Beck , Mew , ToyBoy , Breas , The Curious Couple , -BillD , Jon S , LavenderSkies , SweetieLuv , deltalima , SMichelle , adam7274 , AJVB , msv1876 , Nightstalkerlove
28  (72%)
Chaotic Rantings , clevernickname , Bignuf , Toys in Love , Flash777 , Lena Eden , hiseden2253 , SoloRebel , Soundside46 , Thelovelysexxto1 , FunBox
11  (28%)
Total votes: 39
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've got an interest in prostate massagers - but they are a bit expensive for what you get and our glass shafts are working well for me now.
08/18/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I prefer vibes/dildos and probes, I am more of a hands on kind of guy.

Prostate massagers, such as Aneros, Naughty boy/Rude boy and Nexus, are more of the kind that you place it in and then work your Kegels to get them to move. While they can be very effective, they take time to learn and the stimulation is light compared to a hand controlled toy. The ones that stay in (Aneros, Nexus) are just awesome during sex. Your body's movements help to maneuver it and the stimulation can not be missed.
08/18/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
Voted for my boyfriend, he definitely prefers something like a dildo that can be thrust with, rather than something you insert and just rock on or clench around.
08/19/2011
Contributor: babyrock babyrock
If you're looking for a p-spot orgasm or some folks call the super-o, which I guess is as close to a female orgasm as a man can get, then you'll need a prostate massager.
08/19/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
regular old school vibrator/dildo
08/19/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
If I could only have one it would be the dildo (nice and big with a curve and some gentle bumps). Prostate massagers are fun, but they don't give anything near the stimulation of a well-wielded dildo.
08/19/2011
Contributor: clevernickname clevernickname
Prostate massagers seem to be the most versatile, although sometimes lacking in function variety.
09/08/2011
Contributor: Toys in Love Toys in Love
Big fan of hands-free orgasms, and if you get just the right toy from Nexus or Rocks Off (amongst many) - then your ass will love you forever! But if you're in a relashionship with a someone keen on milking the *blip* out off you with a dildo, your ass will love you forever as well! - So depending on your situation...
10/14/2011
Contributor: Flash777 Flash777
Quote:
Originally posted by bigfuckindicksDOTnet
if you were going to get a new toy (as a guy) which would you go for.. (i might add the fact that i'm kind of bored with my regular Johnny hazzard cyberskin dildo lol)
My first was the aneros MGX, then I got the Dr.Joel Kaplan prostate massager
10/15/2011
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
Since I an not a guy and don't have a prostate, I can't share my experience in using prostate massagers, but I can share some useful information about how to choose the p-spot massager Hope it would be helpful!
07/11/2019
Contributor: Thelovelysexxto1 Thelovelysexxto1
Quote:
Originally posted by bigfuckindicksDOTnet
if you were going to get a new toy (as a guy) which would you go for.. (i might add the fact that i'm kind of bored with my regular Johnny hazzard cyberskin dildo lol)
My husband likes both selections, he says they both are great and pleasurable either way you go.
07/14/2019
Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
I will always go prostate massager. The Aneros is still my all-time favorite sex toy, even with all the toys we own. And we own a bunch.
07/16/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I've got an interest in prostate massagers - but they are a bit expensive for what you get and our glass shafts are working well for me now.
A lot of water under the bridge since my original 2011 post...

My new favorite thing is my wife's hand - although not genuine fisting she can get all her fingers in for a nice prostate massage.

We do a lot of pegging these days - thanks to several tapered products from Tantus and BD, I've worked to some pretty large penetrations. The soft BD Echo is about 2.5" diameter by 7.75". We have other toys of similar sizes but are too hard for me acommodate. When it comes to large dildos - soft works best for me.
07/19/2019