Do I need a harness for a Feeldoe dildo?
Feeldoe
Elf
04/16/2008
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EF Expert
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Feeldoe dildos are generally considered harness-free strap-ons, but you have to have strong vaginal muscles to keep with bulb end inside the vagina and it's really a matter of how tight you can squeeze around the bulb.If your muscles are not strong enough we recommend to use a harness to hold it in place.
Originally posted by
Elf
Do I need a harness for a Feeldoe dildo?
04/16/2008
You don't *need* a harness with any of the double ended dildos, as they are designed to be kept in place by the wearer's kegel muscles. However, if you would like it to be more secure, or you are going to be very rough with it, Outlaw Leather makes all their harness with two holes, do it'll fit in perfectly. I have the Syd, and love it
04/16/2008
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I kegel all the bleedin' time and can't keep my Feeldoe in place without a harness. I know some people can, but I can't do it.
Originally posted by
Elf
Do I need a harness for a Feeldoe dildo?
04/23/2008
Roxy Great
I own the Feeldoe and if i'm using it for partner sex I have to do so with a harness...I can't just hold it in myself.
05/07/2008
I think it can depend a lot on how you are going to be using it. If you want to hold the bulb end anally, then you will probably be able to hold it pretty well because most people have those muscles pretty well trained. If it is vagina-vagina play, then you probably have a 50-50 shot. If you wanted to hold it in your vagina while you penetrated some one anally, you will probably have a difficult time holding it.
06/12/2008
link
That's the Feeldoe site, its kinda cute. I have the Feeldoe More, and its kinda heavy, I use a harness.
That's the Feeldoe site, its kinda cute. I have the Feeldoe More, and its kinda heavy, I use a harness.
06/21/2009
The blue feeldoe and the purple one I can go harness free.
The Feeldoe folks are working on a new Feeldoe called the Realdoe. It will have testicles. I think they should call the Doe-nuts, but opinions are like assholes, right?
The Feeldoe folks are working on a new Feeldoe called the Realdoe. It will have testicles. I think they should call the Doe-nuts, but opinions are like assholes, right?
07/12/2009
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I love the concept of a harness-free double dil but despite great kegels, I loose them just before I am about to orgasm, so I use a harness. So much less frustrating!
Originally posted by
deceased
The blue feeldoe and the purple one I can go harness free.
The Feeldoe folks are working on a new Feeldoe called the Realdoe. It will have testicles. I think they should call the Doe-nuts, but opinions are like assholes, right?
The Feeldoe folks are working on a new Feeldoe called the Realdoe. It will have testicles. I think they should call the Doe-nuts, but opinions are like assholes, right?
07/13/2009
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LOL! Doe-nuts is a VERY clever name. I like it.
Originally posted by
deceased
The blue feeldoe and the purple one I can go harness free.
The Feeldoe folks are working on a new Feeldoe called the Realdoe. It will have testicles. I think they should call the Doe-nuts, but opinions are like assholes, right?
The Feeldoe folks are working on a new Feeldoe called the Realdoe. It will have testicles. I think they should call the Doe-nuts, but opinions are like assholes, right?
07/13/2009
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Jesus, that had me in freaking fits! Fucking brilliant...
Originally posted by
deceased
The blue feeldoe and the purple one I can go harness free.
The Feeldoe folks are working on a new Feeldoe called the Realdoe. It will have testicles. I think they should call the Doe-nuts, but opinions are like assholes, right?
The Feeldoe folks are working on a new Feeldoe called the Realdoe. It will have testicles. I think they should call the Doe-nuts, but opinions are like assholes, right?
07/13/2009
Personally I like to at least keeping a harness nearby. I have a difficult time holding onto the feeldoe when things get really hot. It's nice to have the harness there as a back up, just in case.
09/10/2009
We definitely use a harness with the Feeldoe. We've used it without a harness before but it tends to only stay in well in certain positions, at least for us. Either way it's still a toy we love greatly.
09/14/2009
My boyfriend and I have a Feeldoe, and it's probably our favorite toy! This fact is in spite of the fact that, using it on him turns me on so much that I just get too wet to hold it in properly. It's not that my Kegel muscles are weak. I just, you could say in the right conditions I'm a "squirter," and with G-spot stimulation I just get too slippery. We are in the process of selecting and buying some rope so I can make myself a harness (I am somewhat of a shibari fan, which is Japanese rope knots and bondage) so if you like that way that looks and feels, you can use that, too. No matter how you do it, enjoy yourself and don't get to frustrated!
11/20/2010
It seems like you'd have to have herculean kegels to use a Feeldoe without a harness.
11/20/2010
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Many strapless strapons need strong PC muscles to use a harness with, especially for anal penetration. Sometimes there are some positions that work better than others, for instance most people have problems with a position such as doggie where the woman is upright, but there's more success with missionary where the dildo isn't being pulled out by gravity.
Originally posted by
Lavendar Menace
It seems like you'd have to have herculean kegels to use a Feeldoe without a harness.
Doubles are fun even with a harness, so that's no reason not to look into them.
11/21/2010
I have the "share" by fun factory, I'm curious, how insertable length compares between the two once the wearer has inserted their end. Also I'm curious as to how they compare weight wise. The "share" is fairly heavy.
01/10/2011
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It would really help, but you don't need one.
Originally posted by
Elf
Do I need a harness for a Feeldoe dildo?
02/25/2011
Doesn't look like it.
02/26/2011
I think it's sexier without a harness, but it can be tricky sometimes to get it to stay inside of you. You've really got to have strong muscles or not be too rough.
07/06/2011
we need a harness, the Jaguar by aslan
01/06/2012
I imagine it would take very stong muscles to keep it in place, but practice makes perfect@
02/22/2012
nice info, look forward to trying one sometime
06/10/2012
I started with a harness til I got the hang of how to maneuver it
06/10/2012
It's almost impossible to have any type of rough sex without a harness especially if you have one of the larger ones. I've been able to maneuver others without an issue but the Feeldoe is heavy and semi-awkward.
11/08/2012
stormywaters
how come there isn't a feel buck? it'd be better to fuck with
02/21/2014
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