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do you prefer to use your vibrator with or without your partner?

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Contributor: lucymalfoy lucymalfoy
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i just am interested in finding out the majority of vibrator users answers.
I just like using vibrators. By myself, I love it for masturbation, but I also love handing a vibe over to my boyfriend and letting him go to town. He thinks it's a ton of fun, too.
12/05/2010
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
Quote:
Originally posted by moonlitlilly
I normally use it myself, but I would love it if my BF used one on me
Ask him! I bet he would be thrilled to use it on you!
12/05/2010
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
Like Gunsmoke, I voted for my wife. I don't believe that she uses them alone much,if at all. I have never actually asked her.

I do know that I enjoy using them on her, and I believe she does as well, because sometimes she will actually ask me to get one out. Sometimes she drives, sometimes I drive, and sometimes she drives and I, er, man the controls, especially on her rabbit!

We also enjoy it when she masturbates for me.

I guess I just really enjoy her pleasure!
12/05/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
without. hubbie ot a big fan of my toys
12/05/2010
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
Definitely both ways. We just wish they would put the controls on both sides of the vibe (like the Lelo) so that either one of us can control it easily!
12/05/2010
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i just am interested in finding out the majority of vibrator users answers.
she prefers to use it without me.
12/06/2010
Contributor: northstar northstar
Both
12/09/2010
Contributor: Curious Cloud Curious Cloud
I do both, mainly with just me b/c the one that I have is not that great angle wise when were together buts its a nice addition!
01/05/2011
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
it don't matter.
01/05/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I love it when my husband uses our toys on me. I prefer that as opposed to me using them alone (for some reason I don't get aroused by them alone). I like it when he is in control of them because he can hit better angles than I can by myself...oh wow! I just had an epiphany! I have a hard time orgasming while masturbating. I also have MS and because of it, continued grasping or holding things tightly makes the muscles in my hands and arms burn, get weak and start to ache especially when I have to hold things at odd angles. When that starts to happen I lose my grip and can no longer hold what ever it is tightly if at all. I am sure vibrations do not help that any either. Cool! I have been very frustrated over that debacle for a very long time -- like years. That must be why I appreciate him driving our toys. I can actually relax and enjoy my orgasms completely! Wow! I can't wait to tell him.
01/19/2011
Contributor: IndependentlyHappy IndependentlyHappy
I didn't really use toys much with my last partner, but then again, I didn't have a large collection of toys then. He did use my Echo vibrator/dildo on me, which I enjoyed. My collection has pretty much grown wings only since I became single.
01/20/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Both here too... although these days, mostly with my partner.
01/20/2011
Contributor: Free Free
Anytime!
01/21/2011
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Solo time is healthy. Being an exhibitionist, I voted preference of with partner. Although define "with". In my case it's more of a "in front of". Though there is something to say about laying back and letting someone else take over the controls.
02/06/2011
Contributor: beeauctie2 beeauctie2
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Originally posted by rdytogo
Only use it with.
doesn't matter
02/07/2011
Contributor: spiceboy spiceboy
For now my use of vibrators and dildos is mostly educational. I use the alone time with my toys to have a safe, comfortable space to try things since I'm not in a committed relationship.
02/10/2011
Contributor: newlady newlady
Both. My favourite is when he uses them on me, but poor hubby has been sick for a long time and I don't want to put pressure on him so there are days I am very thankful for my toys and the unlimited hot water of an apartment building.
02/10/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I put by myself. Hubby tries but meh sometimes it's wonderful other times he looses patience.
02/10/2011
Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
I voted without my partner.
02/10/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
I only use them with my husband. It's too much fun to want to use them alone anymore;-)
02/11/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
With a partner is always more fun because it adds an extra element... but solo is great as well.
02/12/2011
Contributor: evanovca evanovca
I'm always happier when vibration is involved!
02/13/2011
Contributor: CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
Love both!
02/13/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Both are great! For slightly different reasons of course
03/11/2011
Contributor: mllebeauty mllebeauty
I like both, using them alone and using them with my man. Why not share the wealth? He enjoys me using some of my toys on him as well, as long as the vibes are not too strong,
03/11/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i just am interested in finding out the majority of vibrator users answers.
my partner isnt really into that...so solo
03/17/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
We only use it together, I'm using it on her. She hasn't taken the toy home with her yet. I guess it's better this way, dunno.
05/07/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
without
05/07/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Definitely with. He can get me off faster than I can, lol.
05/07/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
doesnt matter. anytime
07/28/2011