Discreet (like lip stick) and both wired and wireless remote controlled vibrators. Do you use them?

Contributor: Teaser Teaser
With all the “discreet” and both wired and wireless remote controlled vibrators there are out there, it begs the question, “What do people do with them?” Do you use them clubbing, or when you are out to eat in a restaurant? Do you use them on a road trip? Do you let your partner have the controls on the wired/wireless ones? Do you use them in public places, or are they just another addition to your regular sex experience at home? So if you own one, or you’d like to, where do/would you use one?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I/we own one, and we use it…
digit88 , unfulfilled , sexyfun , Stinkytofu10 , Kitka , KrissyNovacaine , lillmiss5054 , sexxxkitten , Martiniman , Vii , Vegan Silk , AHubbyof2SexualMinds
12
At home
unfulfilled , sexyfun , Stinkytofu10 , Kitka , KrissyNovacaine , lillmiss5054 , sexxxkitten , Martiniman , Vii , Vegan Silk , AHubbyof2SexualMinds
11
Club, Lounge, Bar
Tork48309 , lillmiss5054 , Martiniman , Vii
4
The Mall
On an Airplane
On a Train
lillmiss5054
1
In a Car
Martiniman , Vii , AHubbyof2SexualMinds
3
At the Library
At Aunt Matilda’s special Sunday Dinner
At the Beach, Pool or Spa (Hot Tub)
In a park either walking or on a picnic
Other
digit88 , Martiniman , Neotigress
3
I DEFINITELY let my partner have the controls
KrissyNovacaine , cassondra1987 , lillmiss5054 , Martiniman , Chefbriapink , Vegan Silk , Arlinnae
7
I am in control always
I/we don't own or use one
Beck , RomanticGoth , LAndJ , bh253 , redstars , llellsee , OhMy! , G&L , dirtythoughts:) , hybridinsurge , MissCandyland , LavenderSkies , konicaguy , ichwillwaffels , wdanas , hall5885 , Cora Jane , PassionCpl , Incendiaire , ginainohio , mmmmm , AlianneCimorene , mpfm , Stagger13 , glitterbombs , giftdgecko , sXeVegan90 , BurntToast , licious , potstickers , Love Obsessed
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Total votes: 72 (48 voters)
Poll is closed
06/26/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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06/26/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I own one, but I've never actually used it.
06/26/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by Teaser
With all the “discreet” and both wired and wireless remote controlled vibrators there are out there, it begs the question, “What do people do with them?” Do you use them clubbing, or when you are out to eat in a restaurant? Do you use them on a road ... more
own but don't use
06/26/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I use my wireless remotes at home. I'm too chicken to use them out of the house at supper or something.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I don't own one....yet! I so will.
06/26/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
No, it doesn't appeal to me.
06/26/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
We don't own any. I think it'd be a real thrill for both of us, but I'd be afraid to use something like that in a situation where someone could potentially figure it out.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Teaser
With all the “discreet” and both wired and wireless remote controlled vibrators there are out there, it begs the question, “What do people do with them?” Do you use them clubbing, or when you are out to eat in a restaurant? Do you use them on a road ... more
We have one, and so far we've only used it at home.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
fun to use out and about, wish we could find a better one (stronger, better range)
06/26/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
We're considering getting one...
06/26/2012
Contributor: dirtythoughts:) dirtythoughts:)
Want to own vibes like these but think I'd only use them at home.
06/26/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I want one!!
06/27/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Teaser
With all the “discreet” and both wired and wireless remote controlled vibrators there are out there, it begs the question, “What do people do with them?” Do you use them clubbing, or when you are out to eat in a restaurant? Do you use them on a road ... more
They would be fun!
06/28/2012
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Teaser
With all the “discreet” and both wired and wireless remote controlled vibrators there are out there, it begs the question, “What do people do with them?” Do you use them clubbing, or when you are out to eat in a restaurant? Do you use them on a road ... more
I don't have them but have been tempted by them.
07/01/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I have them because my partner likes using them on me. I am not a huge fan, but I can enjoy it.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Cora Jane Cora Jane
I don't have any and don't see any need for them either. A remote controlled one might be cool to play with my boyfriend.
07/02/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
i dont own any but am thinking bout it
07/03/2012
Contributor: cassondra1987 cassondra1987
I've been thinking about getting a wireless bullet and going out with my husband. Then at some point just handing him the controller and watching the look of amazement and passion light up his face. I imagine he's be doing this in his head lol

We already have a set of remote control Ben Wa balls but they are wired. He almost always gets the controller. It's more fun that way !
07/09/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
If life was a rom com, we'd all be using them at Aunt Matilda's, but apparently real life is different than movies.
07/09/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
They are fun in public.
07/09/2012
Contributor: lillmiss5054 lillmiss5054
We have one and have a lot of fun with it. He has the control I never know when he will use it. Once we were out to dinner i was ordering he activated it....I could hardly get my order out, the waitress had no idea, it can't be heard by anyone. It's also fun at the grocery!
07/13/2012
Contributor: AlianneCimorene AlianneCimorene
Quote:
Originally posted by Teaser
With all the “discreet” and both wired and wireless remote controlled vibrators there are out there, it begs the question, “What do people do with them?” Do you use them clubbing, or when you are out to eat in a restaurant? Do you use them on a road ... more
I don't own any, but I'll probably get one at some point and wear it around, just for the experience. My main problem with the 'discreet' vibes is that I need a lot of power for external vibes to do anything (I'm one of those girls with a clit o' steel), and since they focus on being discreet and quiet, I worry they may not be powerful enough.
07/15/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I bought a wireless remote controlled egg/bullet for my wife and we do use it. An example would be the time I took her to dine in movie theater. I turned the vibe on during the movie and adjusted it often to keep her on her toes. The ride home was enjoyable as she put her feet up and took over the remote control. I drove home and my wife was driven to orgasm.
07/16/2012
Contributor: glitterbombs glitterbombs
I don't own one, but I'd like to as some of them can be cute or a fun gimmick.

That said, I always thought the point was so that you wouldn't have to keep your toys hidden, or for very shy people paranoid about them getting found. Your vibe looking like lipstick isn't going to help hide your public masturbation, but it IS going to stop your mom from asking questions if she sees it on your dresser.
07/18/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
So we don't own one even though we want one anymore. We had one and it was terrible. He wants the controls for going out in public which might be fun, but the reviews are always poor for the products price. Too loud and not enough vibe, as well as the wireless being unreliable
07/18/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I don't own one yet.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Sundae Sparkles Sundae Sparkles
this sounds kinda fun XD
08/01/2012
Contributor: Neotigress Neotigress
Quote:
Originally posted by Teaser
With all the “discreet” and both wired and wireless remote controlled vibrators there are out there, it begs the question, “What do people do with them?” Do you use them clubbing, or when you are out to eat in a restaurant? Do you use them on a road ... more
Currently in the market and doing research to see which seem to be the best option.
10/21/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
We have one that we use occasionally. We've always talked about going to a dance club and using it, but haven't worked up the courage so far. Mostly at home, or in the car.
10/21/2012