Perceptive forum discussions on Oral sex enhancers:

Does clitoral stimulation/gel help an insensitive clit?
I don't have a very sensitive clit, and I almost never come during sex. Is this a problem for anyone else, and does clitoral stimulation gel or...

Is it common for women to not have orgasms via oral?
A bit of history........ We have been married 22 yrs and my wonderful wife has never had a real orgasm produced by me oral or vaginal, 2 years ago I...

What is your Favorite position to preform Oral Sex in?(Men & Women Alike!)
So I know that allot of people like myself LOVE to give and receive oral, but I was curious as to what position one likes to do it most in~

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Any suggestions on sloppy blow jobs?
What do you use to create more saliva? Any other ideas?

Do you like it when a girl looks you in the eyes while she's going down on you?
I have had a lot of guys ask me to look them in the eye while I'm giving them head and I always feel so awkward doing it. My friend and I were talking

I'm in the same boat with you! I need external stimulation as well.

I've found that woman on top and doggy are the best positions for external stimulation with or without toys. Woman on top allows for you to use a bullet and not have it come in contact with his bits at all. In doggy style, he usually won't feel it unless the vibrator comes in contact with his boys. If it's small enough, or your cup it with your hand, it shouldn't be a problem. Spooning also works well for this, as it's basically a sideways doggy style. You could also try the edge of the bed where you're on your back and he's standing. That would also lessen the chance of him feeling any of the vibration

Really, any position where he isn't directly on top of you (like really close missionary) should work. I know doggy and woman on top usually work the best for me. As long as your bullet is small enough and there's enough space to get your hand down there, you should be good.

Yeah, that's what I was thinking. My problem is that when I'm on top, he and I bother prefer for me to be leaning over rather than sitting up. Another one we've tried that we actually kind of like that you may like is kind of a spin-off of spooning. Him laying on his side, you laying on your back perpendicular to him. Think of it like if you start off spooning, and your bottom leg goes between his legs and your top leg goes up over his hip and you scoot until you're practically on your back. This can be really comfortable and allows you access to your clitoris. And he can still reach your boobies which is always a plus in my opinion . The only problem really is that it may not be the best angle for g-spot stimulation unless he's curved in an odd direction lol. But you may wanna try it!

Actually, a great variation of woman on top is him sitting up straight, you on your back, and your legs over his. This allows for both of you to take turns thrusting. Meanwhile, you have full access to your clitoris and no contact with his bits. Because your hips are slightly raised, it makes for great g-spot stimulation!

Another position you might want to try is sort of a variation of spooning where you both turn so you're on your stomachs. It can be a little uncomfortable for some, but mostly just if he puts all of his weight on you, then you might feel a bit smothered! If he can hold himself up off of you a little then it gives you some wiggle room so you can reach your clit, but since he's behind you the vibe shouldn't touch him. He may feel some of the vibrations through your body but that will happen with just about any position when using a vibe. I don't know if that helps at all, but this is a favorite position of mine and my husbands. Your other variation on spooning is another fav.

These are both awesome ideas! I can't wait for my new bullet to come in!!

My wife us exactly the same way. Although she can orgasm when she's on top because she has near 100% control of pace and pressure, it's only because she has had an orgasm before getting on top.

It takes a fair amount of stimulation to give my wife the multiple orgasms that she has learned to love. There is simply no way an old guy like me (57) can deliver the goods.

For almost every encounter I will use a combination of vibes and dildos to give her an orgasm or 2 before progressing to intercourse. With her on top (cowgirl) she'll usually grind to 1-2 more orgasms before I let myself join her. About 20% of the time she'll also grab her Form 2 vibe - when she does this her orgasms are so strong that she practically falls off!

Although we like doggie as well she finds it difficult to use a clit vibe in the process. That requires her to support her weight on one arm - and with 32Gs to support - it's a bit of a challenge for her.

You should really try something like the Mimi or Form 2 - they are strong and small for intense clit stimulation. They have no impact on me.

I don't know if you can afford it, but, the new We Vibe Touch link is incredible used during intercourse and does not get in the way (doggie, missionary ect...). The vibrations range from mild to strong, VERY strong. I highly recommend it!