I would definitely suggest the Ella as your first. It gets nothing but glowing review after glowing review for G spot stimulation and I think the material (silicone) is a little less intimidating than steel and wood (the materials of the above toys). It's also significantly less expensive than those two toys so if you find out it didn't work for you it's not like you've lost over a hundred dollars in the process.

As a side note, I hope you'll remember that G spot orgasms aren't the be-all-end-all of orgasms. I have G spot orgasms and I personally enjoy strictly clitoral orgasms just as much, so there's no need to put undue pressure on yourself to have a G spot orgasm. That said, have fun experimenting and good luck less

I have a Gigi and never use it. It's lame for me internally and externally the vibes are lame. I prefer glass. Even the Tantus G Force was a billion times better, and the Tantus Curve as well. Gigi is overrated and overpriced to me. It was so mediocre, I never even reviewed it. One word, "meh". G spots respond - or atleast studies that believe it exists- to pressure. (as opposed to vibration) A nice, heavy curved glass G spotter or a steel one will do you better.

I don't see any difference in "beginner" or "advanced" or "ender" for G spot products. Find it first with your finger, then you will no where to put your toy. less