Since I've been on Eden, I've tried five different vibrators, and my sixth is showing up in the mail soon. At first, it was fun exploring my body and using them, but lately, they've been leaving me...kind of meh. It's not that I don't reach orgasm--they feel great...until I climax. When I'm masturbating with my fingers, I can bring myself to intense orgasm, though with a vibrator, they sort of just fizzle out. The sensation builds up wonderfully and it feels like I'm going to cum really hard, but they end up not being nearly as intense as I'd like. Does anyone else have this issue?
It's not that I'm overusing them, because my fingers have always been my go to, and I pull out the vibes for fun once in a while. But they've never been totally thrilling for me, except for my g-spot vibe, but I think the vibrations aren't necessary for me--I'm going to test this theory buy getting a glass g-spot dildo. My clitoral vibes are not my favorite things in the world, though.
It's also worth noting though, that I've never used a multi-function vibrator, and never spent a lot of money on a luxury one. I'm hesitant to do so though, because of this. I have had my guy use a very mild bullet on me while we have sex, and that was awesome--the penetration plus the clitoral stimulation with the vibrator was very pleasurable. So perhaps I'd enjoy a rabbit? Tried the butterfly kiss, and that thing was useless.
Should I just try a nicer vibe with different functions? Or perhaps vibrators aren't really for me, and I like the rubbing sensation for my clit more than vibrations, and I need penetration for the best pleasure I can get...
My next vibrator that I'm getting in the mail is the enchanted crystals, which I know is supposed to be a little on the weak side, but I decided to try it because of this issue. I'm in a long distance relationship, and I'll be reunited with my guy in a little over a month, hauling sexual goodies across the globe with me. I wanted to get a nicer bullet for us to use in the bedroom, and I thought that maybe the milder vibrations would be a good bet, because it's worked for us in the past, and I don't want the vibrations to ruin my orgasm while we're having sex. It seems counter intuitive, but I'm wondering if milder vibrations is what I need, because right now, it seems that the more intense the vibrations are, the more my orgasm fizzles out, quietly. Is that odd?
It's not that I'm overusing them, because my fingers have always been my go to, and I pull out the vibes for fun once in a while. But they've never been totally thrilling for me, except for my g-spot vibe, but I think the vibrations aren't necessary for me--I'm going to test this theory buy getting a glass g-spot dildo. My clitoral vibes are not my favorite things in the world, though.
It's also worth noting though, that I've never used a multi-function vibrator, and never spent a lot of money on a luxury one. I'm hesitant to do so though, because of this. I have had my guy use a very mild bullet on me while we have sex, and that was awesome--the penetration plus the clitoral stimulation with the vibrator was very pleasurable. So perhaps I'd enjoy a rabbit? Tried the butterfly kiss, and that thing was useless.
Should I just try a nicer vibe with different functions? Or perhaps vibrators aren't really for me, and I like the rubbing sensation for my clit more than vibrations, and I need penetration for the best pleasure I can get...
My next vibrator that I'm getting in the mail is the enchanted crystals, which I know is supposed to be a little on the weak side, but I decided to try it because of this issue. I'm in a long distance relationship, and I'll be reunited with my guy in a little over a month, hauling sexual goodies across the globe with me. I wanted to get a nicer bullet for us to use in the bedroom, and I thought that maybe the milder vibrations would be a good bet, because it's worked for us in the past, and I don't want the vibrations to ruin my orgasm while we're having sex. It seems counter intuitive, but I'm wondering if milder vibrations is what I need, because right now, it seems that the more intense the vibrations are, the more my orgasm fizzles out, quietly. Is that odd?