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Do you use your vibrator alone or together with your partner?

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Contributor: Nirelan Nirelan
Do you always use your vibrator alone or do you have your partner use it on you? Which do you prefer and why? I like when he uses one on me, but I get frustrated because he just wants to THRUST it and I don't like that and no matter how many times I tell him otherwise it just ends up at thrusting speed again! LOL
05/04/2012
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Like you - we use our toys together - and I'm guilty of being a thruster as well. Thrusting is how men believe sex happens (including me)

Here's how we solve the problem. I use a dildo that I thrust and she 'drives' the clit vibe to her satisfaction. The benefit for my wife is that she has learned to have a combined vaginal-clitoral orgasm from my thrusting and her precision.

Enjoy!
05/04/2012
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
I prefer to use it alone - it seems to be easier to focus and enjoy myself.
05/04/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Depends on the toy. Rabbit's are easier to use alone, but I use a clit vibe just about every time we have sex.
05/04/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
I have used it with men, but prefer it alone. I concentrate better without knowing someone is staring at me waiting for something to occur.
05/04/2012
Contributor: LoveBug721 LoveBug721
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Originally posted by Nirelan
Do you always use your vibrator alone or do you have your partner use it on you? Which do you prefer and why? I like when he uses one on me, but I get frustrated because he just wants to THRUST it and I don't like that and no matter how many ... more
Him to use it on me
05/04/2012