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Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous 07/26/2011

I currently weigh well over 200lbs, and I'm looking for a liberator shape that would help hold my hips up the best? I
I want to make any type of sexual activity best for the both of us.

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Liberator and the big girl (69 posts)
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
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Beck , allme1 , Sharay88
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Bignuf
1  (1%)
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109  (89%)
Shellz31 , Linga , LunaDragon
3  (2%)
newfoundlust , dv8 , PandJ , ily , badk1tty , null
6  (5%)
Total votes: 122
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Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm big and barely make an impression at all when sitting on my Wing and Pulse.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
(EdenFantasys)
The Wedge holds the best out of the ones we have. The Jaz is one of the more squishy shapes, so I wouldn't recommend it, and I actually thought the Wing was pretty squishy as well. The Wedge seemed to work the best for me, but your experience may differ.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
I'm a biggin hehe and my wing doesn't complain at all!
07/26/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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We are both north of 200, and are able to enjoy using: Ramp, Wedge, Wing, Jaz Motion, and Whirl very comfortably. The key is the width of the pillow, they are all made with very firm foam so all of them will support you. The issue is whether they are wide enough to be comfortable.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Acorn Acorn
When I was looking at reviews for the wedge, I came across a reviewer who was 300+ pounds. She said that the wedge was plenty firm enough for her, so it should be no problem for you.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
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Originally posted by Acorn
When I was looking at reviews for the wedge, I came across a reviewer who was 300+ pounds. She said that the wedge was plenty firm enough for her, so it should be no problem for you.
Oh wow! okay that's good! I was worried I wouldnt be able use any of them!!!
07/26/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I am glad I found this topic. I am a big girl, and I was wondering if Liberator products would work for me.
07/26/2011
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Splurge on the ramp/wedge combo.
07/26/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I've been wondering the same thing (I'm over 200), so thanks for asking this!
07/26/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
wedge
07/26/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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deff the wedge
07/26/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
We have the Ramp/Wedge Combo, the Axis Hitachi, the Esse, and the Whirl XT. I am 185 lbs, currently and my husband is about 190 lbs. The Liberator products are virtually uncrushable! There is a little give, but for the most part, they retain their shape. The Wedge gets a lot of use in our bedroom.
07/27/2011
Contributor: boobookittyfuk boobookittyfuk
Im a big girl and we have the wedge ramp combo. They both work amazing for us!
07/27/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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I love this post, thanks! I was wondering this myself.
07/29/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I say go with the wedge!
07/29/2011
Contributor: jessterinthebed jessterinthebed
Just what I needed to know! Thanks I'm buying some gear very soon!
07/31/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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Id buy the wedge for sure
08/01/2011
Contributor: PandJ PandJ
My wife is over 200lbs as well, and we use the liberator axis hitachi to bring up her hips. It also gives her the chance to have the hitachi on her during sex. It works great and she loves having it under her.
08/29/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I would go wedge.
08/30/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I can't wait to own some liberator products. The wedge/ramp combo looks nice out of all of them even though that's not mentioned as a choice.
10/12/2011
Contributor: Neurogasm Neurogasm
I'd definitely go with the Wedge. It holds up really well.
10/13/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
I weigh in at about 235, and all of the Liberator shapes I've tried have held up beautifully. They're a great company!
10/14/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
I would get the full liberator combo, not just the wedge. Yes it's more, but it also allows for us bigger gals to really enjoy a lot of positions without dealing with the aches and pains that come from holding our bodies up in said positions. Missionary? check. Pain-free doggy? Check. Ankles up near your head? yep! I could go on and on.
10/15/2011
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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wedge seems great, heart wedge is already cute
10/26/2011
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
I vote for the wedge. It doesn't crush under weight.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Tefca Tefca
What about the BonBon for big/tall folk? Anyone have one?
11/03/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Wondering the same thing! Good question.
11/05/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Tefca
What about the BonBon for big/tall folk? Anyone have one?
BonBon works pretty well. It holds up a lot better with larger weights than the Wing does. It's not as supportive as the Wedge, but it does hold up okay.
11/05/2011
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Wedge!
04/20/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
wedge
04/21/2012
Contributor: LoveBug721 LoveBug721
wedge
04/22/2012
Contributor: Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
I hear the wedge is better than the jaz if your a little larger.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
i would go with the wedge
04/22/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Wedge I guess.
08/16/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
I like the wedge
10/11/2012
Contributor: Kenneth Fort Kenneth Fort
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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Liberator wedge.
10/15/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
WEDGE!
10/15/2012
Contributor: thesquaredeific thesquaredeific
Liberator wedge.
10/24/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
The wedge can support both myself and my husband and together we are more than 300Lbs!
10/24/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Liberator wedge (Purple)
10/24/2012
Contributor: charleswifey charleswifey
seriously amazing support as long as you actually rest on it
10/30/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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Liberator wedge (Purple)
10/30/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Wedge.
10/30/2012
Contributor: null null
I voted other, but I mean all. They're all made for people 200+.
10/30/2012
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
Liberator wedge (Purple)
11/01/2012
Contributor: Xarien Xarien
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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Definitely Liberator wedge (Purple)
11/01/2012
Contributor: allgood1 allgood1
Liberator wedge (Purple)
11/04/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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Miss Nessa, I have all the shapes. I use them all. I have recommended them to friends. I know everyone always says the Wedge. However, for 99% of people who really know and use these, the Wedge is TOO TALL on it's narrow side, for raising hips for missionary sex and may well be too tall for comfort even laying on it to do rear entry sex. Believe me....try the JAZ. we use it every darn day, in a dozen different ways. Everyone we know (about a dozen couples) use their Wedge once in a great while. ALL use the Jaz as a "daily support". Just my two cents worth. Good luck.
11/10/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by carenautilus
I weigh in at about 235, and all of the Liberator shapes I've tried have held up beautifully. They're a great company!
Indeed, all the shapes hold up well.
11/10/2012
Contributor: allme1 allme1
Liberator heart wedge . but just a guess.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Sharay88 Sharay88
Liberator heart wedge
11/20/2012
Contributor: butts butts
This is a great thread for heavier people, though I can't really give any advice, I'm glad to see the info here AND it's great to hear that the shapes hold up well, I've wanted to get one for a while!
11/28/2012
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
the wedge looks the best
12/04/2012
Contributor: srexom srexom
Liberator wedge (Purple)
12/04/2012
Contributor: Janene Janene
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Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
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The good ones cost a lot, but that's because we don't have to worry about cheap vinyl popping.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I also want the Axis
04/15/2013
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
The classic Liberator wedge is best.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Madame Z Madame Z
I haven't yet, but I want to try the various position pillows. This is all great information to have. Thanks for all the comments and all the sharing
04/27/2013
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
We are very pleased with all of our Liberator products.
04/30/2013
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
The Wedge!
05/03/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
We have the wedge and ramp and use the wedge far more frequently. Only thing is, I wish that we'd purchased them in the Plus size 30" wide, rather than the regular 24" wide. That little bit of extra width would make them just that much more comfortable.
07/31/2014
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
(Review Program Mentor)
Liberator makes the wedges and ramps in three sizes, one particularly for the full figured. I would also consider the love arts pillow as it is wider and also offers a light bondage experience.
10/18/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by dv8
Splurge on the ramp/wedge combo.
Agreed! Everyone should have this combo. Also if you get the Heart Wedge, assuming you don't make a real mess on it, it can be left out in case of company and no one will know what it's for unless they own one.
11/07/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Also, if you wanted the decor heart wedge but feel it might be too small, they just released a larger slightly better version called the caresse. The reason I say it is slightly better is because it looks like where the 2 humps come together to form the top of the heart, there is a space that might be large enough to position a wand type of vibe in that space. If this is true, that could be fun...
11/25/2014
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Also, if you wanted the decor heart wedge but feel it might be too small, they just released a larger slightly better version called the caresse. The reason I say it is slightly better is because it looks like where the 2 humps come together to form ... more
The new larger heart wedge does look pretty nice.
11/25/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Kitt Katt
The new larger heart wedge does look pretty nice.
I'm not trying to convinvce anyone or anything but now is a good time to pick it up from the website. This is the only time of year they offer 30% off everything and if you spend enough, they throw in some extra stuff. I'm just saying...
11/25/2014
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I'm not trying to convinvce anyone or anything but now is a good time to pick it up from the website. This is the only time of year they offer 30% off everything and if you spend enough, they throw in some extra stuff. I'm just saying...
Inquisitor, I understand. No need to convince us. We have quite a few Liberator pieces already; but, they do have similar sales at numerous times during the year.
We actually just got two of the new Lift cushions a couple weeks ago during their 30% off Veterans Day sale. We are very pleased with them, great on the knees during doggie or oral. I also expect them to be quite versatile using them with our other cushions.

Do you already own the Caresse Heart Wedge? If so, can you tell me how big it actually is? The dimensions on their website cannot be right. Thanks.
11/25/2014
Contributor: Gemmalie Gayle Gemmalie Gayle
We have the chaise and we are both big, it's always been great support. I want the scoop next, to try love making with more motion.
01/23/2015