I need something to help control my ejaculation. But I do not want to go with a cock ring(I had a bad experience once) Is the cock ring the only solution?
Do you ever wear a vibrator during the day? Do you ever wear a bullet or vibrator during the day under your clothes? Would you do it as a kind of secret foreplay on date? Just curious!
Cocks rings and girth Ive tried a few cock rings. Most ive bought have not fit or have broken quickly. The ones that have fit feel like they strangle my erection away....
What do cock rings do? I know what the vibrating one are for, but what are the plain rings for? i feel like such a virgin asking this question but i am so confused with them
Bringing in a third person I would love to bring a women into our bedroom (I'm bisexual and he was a virgin when we met so YES we both would love to share this) BUT I don't want
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05/20/2008
Shad
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Kernizan
I need something to help control my ejaculation. But I do not want to go with a cock ring(I had a bad experience once)Is the cock ring the only solution?
You could try a desensitizing cream right before intercourse. Some men love them, some men don't... It contains a very mild numbing agent and you'll get less stimulation from sex. So you may last longer..but it's not guaranteed...
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05/20/2008
Veteran
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Originally posted by
Kernizan
I need something to help control my ejaculation. But I do not want to go with a cock ring(I had a bad experience once)Is the cock ring the only solution?
I never had any bad experience with any cock ring! The one you tried was possibly too tight! Start with stretchy ones or with those which are quick to release. They will work much better than any desensitizer.
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05/20/2008
Hielo
I do agree with Veteran! None of these desensitizing creams worked for me!
If your bad experience was due to not being able to get it off/adjust it, try one that is easily adjustable (with snaps or something).
Otherwise, try practicing delaying your ejaculation--when you're masturbating, get really close to coming, and then stop. Then get yourself close again, then stop. The more you practice with that, the better control you'll have over your erections.
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07/26/2008
abstentia
i second maria's comment above. the technique is called "edging". try searching for info, there are some really well-written articles on the subject. edging branches into several schools, such as orgasm without ejaculation, multiple male orgasms, continuous male orgasm, and so on. takes practice, it's something one develops, but it will enhance your experiences regardless of what level you take it to.