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Originally posted by
TiffanyW
What should I expect? I feel like this is totally out of my comfort zone!
are they good, useful? I'm not so sure about this one!
Well, I'm not one to go for things outside my comfort zone. I tend to think that when it comes to things like sex, you shouldn't do things that are outside your comfort zone. I just think it can be risky, so it's better to communicate and understand each other beforehand. Before going and doing it or just dropping it on your partner without warning.
I figure this isn't a very popular opinion on this topic, but personally, I always say you shouldn't do or feel pressure or obligated to do things you aren't comfortable with.
What I would do is discuss it with your spouse. Did he just spring the penis sleeve on you. I mean, isn't a penis sleeve something he wears
during sex and that means it would be going inside you? If that's what you mean by penis sleeve, then it'd seem a little off that he wouldn't at least ASK you first. I wouldn't agree to a penis sleeve being added on just because I wouldn't be comfortable with it & wouldn't find it as pleasurable as my partner's penis.
He should really talk to you about doing it. I guess they are useful for some people who want to feel more texture during sex or more size, but that would be for the receiver, not the wearer, if I'm right. I mean, I don't think a penis sleeve does anything extra for the person wearing it, so it'd seem strange not to ask your partner before you buy one to use on them.