There might be a post about this somewhere that I just can't find, but I'm looking for a cock ring (probably a vibrating one) that would be comfortable enough for my husband to wear. There's a few reasons that he's concerned with using one that goes around the testicles. 1) he had a hernia when he was a baby and he had surgery. He never really had any lasting effects from this but when he had his vasectomy the doctor said he had scar tissue. One of his testicles doesn't always want to hang as low as it "should" and so he wants something that's flexible enough but still going to offer some ejaculation delay. 2) he's a hairy guy, he trims but there is still hair around and he doesn't want something that's going to overly pull at his hair.

Is there a cock ring that will fit our needs? We've used ones before but we've only used one over the penis itself and not for ejaculation delay so I've been looking for one for that purpose for a while now but I just don't know where to start. I would just kind of pick one and wing it but I'm afraid that if I get some horrible torture device one he'll never be willing to try again. So, I'm hoping to get some advice before I choose so I can limit the chances of torture for him. less

Well here's my put.

I've got a few years on your husband - like 10, as I am a 57 year old guy.

Like you two, my wife and I have had some experience over the past 10 years or so with what I call 'penis only' cock rings, mostly because at 57, like many/most guys my age I suffer from 'mild' ED- 'mild' in that I get a hard-on, but sometimes it doesn't stick around as long as we'd like, LOL. I do take the 'little blue pill' (Viagra) which most of the time helps 'big' time with that issue- but have been doing so for some time (years now) and sometimes it doesn't seem as effective as it once was- even with a cock-only C Ring.

So recently I/we decided to try a 'Ball 'N Cock' ring, as the lore is that they are more effective. BTW, like your husband, I've had some issues with my balls - the uneven hanging thing for sure (but that's quite common and natural), a long-ago mild hernia, etc., so I was more then a little apprehensive about the idea of a) getting the little ball buggers (together) thru a ring and b) possible bad effects once/if I did.

We shopped around EF and eventually settled on the Tantus Beginner Cock Ring, see- link .

It's flexible, to a degree, is relatively easy to put on and comes with good, basic directions on how-to, and gives really nice and enjoyable results for both of us.

I've had no issues with any kind of harm from it. It just works great, and has had the desired results. A hard-on that's there for the long haul, a little larger and harder then I am without it, and an added benefit in that I really, really like how my balls andd cock feel when I am wearing it, as does my wife. She says she likes it for lots of reasons, including because it "doesn't get in the way" as she felt the cock-only ones did on occasion.

Even though you seem interested in a vibrating ring, and Tantus does make a version of this C -Ring with a vibrator, I'd suggest that you and your husband try starting with this vibrator-less version, if only because it does take some to master to learn how to put it on and I can see the addition of the added vibrating hardware only adding to that learning curve. What I'm saying in essence is start simple with the Ball 'N Cock Ring, keep to the basics, then work up to more elaborate versions with time/experience.

But I/we are quite sure you'll both be very happy with a Ball 'N Cock ring - there's literally nothing quite like it in feeling and 'performance'. And tell your husband "No Worries"!

Oy yeah, the hair thing. I always joke that I've got so much of it, everywhere, that I must be closer-to-the-ape from an evolutionary perpsective. Like some one else posted here, a very little lube, which is needed and included in the instructions re: how to put it on, takes care of all that. I've had no hair problems in my experience with this ring. less

Hmmm...Sorry to hear about the whole "squished" thing...I don't seem to have that happen to me, at all, with the Beginner C Ring. I did look at the C-Sling, and nixed the idea 'cuz it looked, well, too confining, ball-wise. Your, well your husband's, experience seems to confirm what I thought would happen with the Sling.

My advice, last time - I promise, is for you guys to try the plain old, simple, Beginner. Yes, my balls are gently help 'up front' so to speak, but there's no "squished up" sensation at all in fact I like how they feel, as I've said, when I am wearing it. It's not "too tight" or anything like that, just 'held' in place, as if I was holding my ball sac below my cock and above my balls, even though with the ring on it's below 'em, of course!

And never give up decorating your husband's penis! I'm sure he feels your the best 'decoration' he could have there for many, many reasons! less