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Toys: Together or Alone?

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Contributor: FHeemz FHeemz
Pretty simple question here. Do you generally use toys by yourself, or with a partner? You may use em in both cases, but which is more?
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FHeemz , icyqueen , Geogeo , Sinfully , ToyTimeTim , Breas , ksparkles16 , Girly Juice , freud13 , Ukulele Guy , Meggg , bayosgirl , Librarian , indiechick , SMichelle , Velocity , Falsepast , AlianneCimorene , *Camoprincess* , KrissyNovacaine , travelnurse , Mikemanz , mmmmm , Trysexual , kkizzee05 , MissCandyland
26  (45%)
spunkmonkey , OhMy! , pootpootpoot , Kissaki , Gunsmoke , Terri69 , Bullfroggy and Rose , Tork48309 , potstickers , rom323 , married with children , Girl696 , amazon , giggles26 , gsfanatic , G&L , giftdgecko , Miss Anonymous , Love&War , Lavendar , PropertyOfPotter , Boyfriend , Ilovelingerie , brevado , Lioncub , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , Living Doll , mpfm , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , LavenderSkies , hawaiian chick , DomonCoshu
32  (55%)
Total votes: 58
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06/02/2012
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Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
We use them together.
06/02/2012
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
Both - but we could't vote for that!
06/03/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Alone, because I normally am alone and don't have anyone to share them with even if I wanted to.
06/03/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Mostly alone, we have different schedule's and kids so it is hard enough just to have sex. We do use them together when we can though.
06/04/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
I use toys more by myself but my partner and I play together with the toys too every so often : )
06/04/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I do both, but more frequently by myself (there are some sensations that my boyfriend can create with parts of his body that I can only replicate if I use toys).
06/04/2012
Contributor: Th8405 Th8405
Quote:
Originally posted by FHeemz
Pretty simple question here. Do you generally use toys by yourself, or with a partner? You may use em in both cases, but which is more?
Probably depending on the toy
06/04/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
mostly together
06/04/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
Wish "Both" was an option on this one.
06/04/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
almost always together.
06/05/2012
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Usually together, but a lot of the time separate. I wish there was an option for "50-50", because I think that's me.
06/06/2012
Contributor: Ukulele Guy Ukulele Guy
So far, I've only had one partner who was open to using toys of any kind.
06/06/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
It's better together!
06/06/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Partner, it's much more fun
06/08/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by FHeemz
Pretty simple question here. Do you generally use toys by yourself, or with a partner? You may use em in both cases, but which is more?
I have never had a partner want to use anything other than cuffs with me
06/08/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
So much more fun with a partner.
06/08/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Unfortunately my partner lives across the Atlantic just now, so we don't get the opportunity to play often. When we do play, we frequently use toys as both he and I enjoy them.

But... due to the distance... I play with toys alone more than I play with a partner.
06/08/2012
Contributor: Velocity Velocity
You should have put a both option ;]

Most of the time I use them alone.
But we enjoy using them together.
07/10/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I currently use them alone but I would love to use my toys with someone else.
07/10/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Mine are used 98% of the time when I am alone
07/10/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
2 is much better than 1! But solo is necessary sometimes
07/12/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Quote:
Originally posted by FHeemz
Pretty simple question here. Do you generally use toys by yourself, or with a partner? You may use em in both cases, but which is more?
I like playing alone, but I love it more with my partner.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Love&War Love&War
together... watching each other
07/18/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
mostly with a partner but sometimes alone
07/18/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Almost always with my man!
07/18/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
It's more fun with my partner
07/18/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by FHeemz
Pretty simple question here. Do you generally use toys by yourself, or with a partner? You may use em in both cases, but which is more?
Overall? together, lately? alone.
07/18/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
It's very evenly both for me. I suppose alone more but that is because we don't have a ton of sex.
07/18/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
We prefer playing together, especially with our toys
07/19/2012