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Contributor: Gardenvy Gardenvy
Hey everyone, I am in a monogamist relationship with a man, and recently we have been experimenting with anal pleasure for him (I already enjoy this). I was wondering if any other hetero couples use strap ons, what ones are good to look at for purchase, tips on use, and mostly how do I say to him that I am interested in using a toy like this???
Thanks for all of your help!
03/12/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Useful topic breakdown on Strap on dildo:

What part of your pelvis should you thrust with?
In other words exactly where should the dildo's base be pushing against on the harness wearer?

Strap on
What is the best strap on for a first time guy to introduce to his wife? I would love to have her use one on me but don't want to get some huge thing

thigh harnesses
I want to get a pair of these, they look like loads of fun and perfect for lazy morning sex or a happy ending to a lapdance. Has anyone tried? Do you...

Best strap on/harness for a beginner?
what would be the best strap on/harness combination for a beginner?

Sleep
Do you get a better night sleep alone or with your partner?
03/12/2010
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
My partner and I are in a monogamist heterosexual relationship, but she does me with a strap on occasionally. I think I was the one that brought it up at first, so maybe the situation is a little different. After you have had some experience pleasuring him anally, maybe strike up a conversation about which types of sensations he enjoys and different ways you could deliver those sensations to him.
There are lots of decent, basic strap-ons available and I would suggest not spending too much on one until you have been able to determine whether or not it is going to be used much.
03/12/2010
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
I would purchase a cheap, durable harness first to see if you both enjoy it. There's a harness by Sportsheets that is really great, though a bit uncomfortable. If you guys like it I would recommend the Spareparts Joque harness. It's very, very comfortable.

There should be plenty of reviews and such for you to browse to determine what will fill your needs best.
03/12/2010
Contributor: Gardenvy Gardenvy
Quote:
Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
My partner and I are in a monogamist heterosexual relationship, but she does me with a strap on occasionally. I think I was the one that brought it up at first, so maybe the situation is a little different. After you have had some experience ... more
Ok, that sounds like a great idea I'll try that. Thanks a ton for your help.
03/12/2010
Contributor: Gardenvy Gardenvy
Quote:
Originally posted by sarahbear
I would purchase a cheap, durable harness first to see if you both enjoy it. There's a harness by Sportsheets that is really great, though a bit uncomfortable. If you guys like it I would recommend the Spareparts Joque harness. It's very, ... more
Thats a good idea. I'll look at those, thanks so much!
03/12/2010