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Contributor: old but not dead old but not dead
any advice on satisfying my man would be appreciated
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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
what has been satisfying already?
05/05/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
I started with new lingerie and worked up from there. I would also suggest talking to him directly so he will know you are interested in rekindling your passion. Some men, mine a good example didn't even realize it until I took the bull by the horns and talked to him about it. Oh and we're still talking, doing more but the talking still continues...
05/06/2013
Contributor: Catan Catan
To second Hummingbird, talking about interests and fantasies, and what he would like, is a good start, and can be hot in and of itself!
05/06/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
Anal electrocution. Not kidding! look into a basic TENS unit or analogous toy. Also try pads on the penis and taint but be sure to shave first.
05/08/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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Originally posted by Real or memorex
Anal electrocution. Not kidding! look into a basic TENS unit or analogous toy. Also try pads on the penis and taint but be sure to shave first.
Holy cow, that seems a little bit intense for some couples and might be moving too fast for people who have just begun working to reignite their passion. I respect your opinion, but I definitely don't think that this is a general cure-all that can satisfy every man, nor is it something that I feel most people struggling with their love lives can just jump straight into! I am one hundred percent certain that this would cause tension in the bedroom (not to mention out of it) were I to suggest it to my partner, which would have the exact opposite effect of pleasing him.

I absolutely agree with Hummingbird and Catan - sitting down, talking to him about what has been lacking in your sex lives and letting him know that you're still very much interested in satisfying him is what I would be doing were I in a similar situation. Even if you're not in a standard relationship, opening up a line for communication is key. He might not even know that you've been feeling inadequate lately, and talking things through with him is the best first step I can suggest without knowing more about your specific situation.
05/08/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
Such a broad topic! I'd suggest talking with him about his fantasies and desires. An open discussion with the understanding that you won't necessarily want to try EVERYTHING, but you won't be judgmental about his fantasies and desires, either. Tell him yours, too, while you're at it!
05/08/2013