What is the softest, squishiest material?

Contributor: MinnesotaMilf MinnesotaMilf
I know it's a weird question, but I'm a pretty sensitive gal. I've had hard plastic, silicone and CyberSkin material toys. I loved CyberSkin & found it the softest of ANYTHING I'd used, but it seems it's getting harder & harder to find (no pun intended). Is there anything as soft or softer than CyberSkin or a scientific term I should be searching? Or perhaps one could suggest some toys that might be what I'm looking for? I like the silicone toys I have, but they are still not nearly as soft as I'd like. I bought some toys called "sexflesh" last year that I liked the feel of, but they were WAY too big for me to do anything with... literally are sitting in a lockbox in storage. o.O I'm looking for external & clitoral stimulators, but not necessarily ones made specifically for that. I can modify or multi-use just about anything (with cleaning in between if dual purposing something).

Vibration power has no impact on what I will buy or use. I'm sensitive enough that vibrations feel like an unpleasant electrical shock to me. I have vibrators, but they don't have batteries. LOL I guess I wouldn't mind something that moved or wiggled, but I'm fine with stationary apparatuses. Thanks for any advice in advance!

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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
Vanity Vr 10.5 has a rotating shaft & vibrating clit attachment. each has their own motor & control. maybe you might like the feeling of rotation.
02/22/2014
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by MinnesotaMilf
I know it's a weird question, but I'm a pretty sensitive gal. I've had hard plastic, silicone and CyberSkin material toys. I loved CyberSkin & found it the softest of ANYTHING I'd used, but it seems it's getting harder & ... more
I have the same preference as you for Cyberskin, but only the one brand that makes it the softest. There's another softer material called Blush, but it smells sweet and takes a while for it to go away. Eden no longer carries them, but I will provide links to the product pages anyway where you can still read about them and check the reviews. They are available all over the place online and in stores, so you can still try them, if the smell doesn't bother you. And let me say, they are very soft, so most people complained about them not being insertable. Oh, and the anal starter is really the size of your middle finger, just letting you know the pix are deceiving on that one.
Blush UR3 ballsy dong
Blush UR3 anal starter
Blush UR3 dong

And here is a review for a current dildo that is like Cyberskin that I think you might like a lot based on the what the reviewer didn't like, lol - the squishiness!!
Cock with flexible spine
Some of the TPR can be very squishy, but it's hit or miss and usually the squishy type is used to cover the rabbits with spinning beads in the shaft and make the clit part.

Now, for silicone, there is a new line out called Iroha and they are a new kind of clit vibe with a special super squishy, soft silicone. Eden doesn't carry them and we can't link to competitor websites on here, so I will PM you the links, OK? They are your best best, I think!

Now, Vixen makes a super soft silicone called VixSkin which is a squishy outside with a firm inside and I have several, they are called dual density dildos. I am going to say right now that other than their packer, Mr Right, they will NOT be soft enough for you. Mr. Right is not sold here anymore, but it was and here are the reviews for Mr. Right That packer is very soft like a flaccid penis, almost, and so are the Mr Limpy packers (not sold at Eden anymore, but they used to be, so here are all the reviews on Mr. Limpy extra small there are other sizes, but for a clit toy, this is probably all you need. You can get them in lots of places.) and other types of packers. In fact, they are the softest of anything including Cyberskin!! Be sure not to get the pack-n-play kind of packer because they are firmer to allow penetration!
Private soft pack – packing dildo

Another thought would be to get a breast form, they are super soft and squishy sometimes! You know, like a full replacement cup or a "chicken cutlet" (which are used to push up the bust by placing in the bra cup and under the breast). Since you don't need vibration anything soft would work as long as it's body safe. The rechargeable Iroha is more expensive because of the vibration technology, but if you can, try to get to touch one in a sex store (but perhaps buy online to save money) and see if any of the three styles are to your liking. Remember to check your inbox for a message from me with the links to them!

Have you considered using a Tenga Egg? (They are not carried at Eden anymore, but all over the place elsewhere!) They have a squishy soft end on them and though they are meant for male masturbation, there is no reason you couldn't stick it over your fingers or a dildo and use it that way! The inside of them for each style has a different texture, but all in the super squishy, stretchy material. You could use the plain outside surface, or turn it inside out and try that way, too!
02/22/2014
Contributor: MinnesotaMilf MinnesotaMilf
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I have the same preference as you for Cyberskin, but only the one brand that makes it the softest. There's another softer material called Blush, but it smells sweet and takes a while for it to go away. Eden no longer carries them, but I will ... more
Thank you SO much for your replies. I will definitely be looking into all those mentioned. I had been reading about the Iroha toys, but they are way out of my price range, even if I did buy online. Maybe someday, though! They are on my wishlist!
02/25/2014
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
As you probably already know, if it has a smell when it is new right out of the package... It is most likely toxic to one degree or another.
02/25/2014
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by RonLee
As you probably already know, if it has a smell when it is new right out of the package... It is most likely toxic to one degree or another.
Absolutely, RonLee, thanks for pointing that out! And that's why you should use a condom over them & also because they are porous, MinnesotaMilf. I should have thought to mention that instead of assuming you knew already, sorry!! So anything that is at all porous, and especially if it smells, use a condom or some barrier between your skin and the material. Oh and the Iroha vibes were sent out to many bloggers who do adult toy reviewers. Some didn't care for it (usually because they were not powerful enough for the person). I know several of these reviewers and since these toys are silicone, they can be sanitized. Now, if you are willing, you can buy one from one of these people. and you can get a great deal. If this is something you would consider, send me a PM.

And I forgot to mention that I hated vibrations because they irritated me, hurt and then caused numbness. However, I kept reading on Eden about buzzy versus rumbly vibes and the more I investigated, the more intrigued I became that maybe there was something new for me to try. Imagine my extreme surprise and pleasure to discover rumbly vibes are completely different and that on a very low speed, they rock my world! I have only found two companies that make vibes that have really low level power options to go with those rumbly vibes nd those are Minna Life and Lelo (Picobong, too, as they are made by Lelo as a more affordable battery operated line, but otherwise the same quality as Lelo's rechargeable vibes). The Minna Ola and Limon both have squeeze pads that you press to control the intensity and patterns of the vibes, but are expensive. The Lelo vibes are terrific, but if you want a more affordable selection that gives the same features in patterns and such, Picobong is what I'd recommend for you to try and see if these vibrations work for you. If you ever want to try, I bought the Picobong Zizo and it has the exact same vibes as my Mona 2 from Lelo, just a different shape. I bought their Koa at a steal of $8 (yeah, new!) thinking it was too good to pass up and I could use it as the clit vibe while my Zizo was inside me. I discovered that it's more buzzy and I gave it away. So the only ones I can attest to being definitely rumbly is the Zizo and the Lelo Mona 2 or Elise 2.

And also for what it's worth, I discovered that constant vibration was too irritating to me, but a pattern such as a pulse made me crazy. I think it's all due to being so sensitive. Since you are so sensitive, I thought maybe you would like to know my experiences, that's all. Feel free to message me any time if you have any questions for me. I like helping people and never get annoyed by questions, no matter how silly you may think them, truly!

PS, Th Stronic line of pulsators have rocked my world! They have a different type of movement and though they are powerful, they work the best for me of anything I have ever tried. However, they would likely have overwhelmed me a year ago when I first started to get seriously into sex toys. I f you have a chance to ever try one, you might want to see what it's like just to be sure you aren't missing out on something amazing.
02/25/2014