Hmmm It can all be fun with the right person, I think.
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Partner play with dildos.......does it work for you?
02/08/2011
I really need to pay attention when using ridgid toys on Mrs. Peg. As for her using them on me....well that works for me!
03/14/2011
Rigid toys are sometimes painful in parter use, sometimes not. There's one glass dildo in particular that my boyfriend cannot insert into me without a whole lot of wincing on my part. Generally the solution has been that I just do the insertion myself and get the right angle going and he can safely take over from there. I just got the Kissa in my last order and man oh man, there was no way he was going to be able to use that on me without some guidance
Non-rigid toys are no problem at all, though.
Non-rigid toys are no problem at all, though.
03/14/2011
my answer was a combo of those, cause with rigid toys I have to agree with the impalement, with other toys, he tries but not really into most toys
04/02/2011
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My partner is not really a fan of toys
Originally posted by
Liz2
Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel
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Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel that I am being impaled and/or that they miss the mark as most rigid toys demand pinpoint accuracy. Am I alone here?
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04/02/2011
Mutual masturbation is super fun for us as partners, we very much enjoy it and in some ways it is more intimate than typical sex..
04/12/2011
I enjoy my partner watching me use toys; solo
07/11/2011
We don't typically use hard toys. But I don't think that they would be very good with couples play.
07/11/2011
He watches
08/24/2011
I'm very open with guiding his hand to show him how and where.
09/09/2011
I haven't tried a rigid toy wielded by a partner, but have tried a silicone one with success.
09/10/2011
ya i love having my bf dp me. he'll fuck my ass while he slides the dildo in and out of my pussy.
09/17/2011
Had a really fun session with lots of dildo play recently. It involved fulfilling a fantasy of having all my holes filled.
09/17/2011
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We love toy play. We BOTH love SOFT toys, although we have TONS of steel, glass, wood, you name it. Our favorites were STILL our Jellies, which I just tossed for safety concerns. We are looking at replacements with all kinds of other SOFT toys...in safe materials.
Originally posted by
Liz2
Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel
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Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel that I am being impaled and/or that they miss the mark as most rigid toys demand pinpoint accuracy. Am I alone here?
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10/01/2011
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Good observation of that toy. I like it too, for the same reason.
Originally posted by
EffinSara
With a straight, rigid toy I might be afraid that he'd accidentally pound my cervix with it. But with a toy like the Pure Wand, that seems to magically find its own way to my G-spot, he can do no wrong.
10/01/2011
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I am also with red on this one.
Originally posted by
Red
Pardon the TMI, but I like being f*cked hard and fast. Thus, there is nothing - repeat, nothing - better than partner play with a dildo. Dildos don't have to worry about coming, after all
10/29/2011
I find toy length has a great deal to do with it. If you've got a rough partner, try a dildo with a flared base (so it can't be stuck in too far) and a short insertable length (such as 4 or 5 inches).
11/25/2011
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I couldnt bring myself to use one on someone. Its just to much. Itd rather stick to the basic cyberskin or silicone.
Originally posted by
Liz2
Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel
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Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel that I am being impaled and/or that they miss the mark as most rigid toys demand pinpoint accuracy. Am I alone here?
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11/28/2011
i like when my boyfriend watches
01/17/2012
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Plastic doesn't really bother me but I'd prefer silicone. I have a glass toy but I have only used it by myself and I think I'd rather have my fiance use a more flexible, softer material if he wanted to 'play' with me.
Originally posted by
Liz2
Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel
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Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel that I am being impaled and/or that they miss the mark as most rigid toys demand pinpoint accuracy. Am I alone here?
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01/17/2012
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agree
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Like most we started with clit vibes, then tried penetration and then on to dual stimulation vibes before we even considered non vibrating dildos. The idea came to me when my wife commented that she preferred not to have the shaft of her Decadent
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Like most we started with clit vibes, then tried penetration and then on to dual stimulation vibes before we even considered non vibrating dildos. The idea came to me when my wife commented that she preferred not to have the shaft of her Decadent Indulgence rotate. That didn't make any sense to me until she said she liked 'having something to hold on to' referring to the shaft of the DI.
That's when I started buying dildos - initially jelly types and they seemed to work fine until she developed a sensitivity. I've thrown them all out except for her favorite one that I always cover with a condom. With these toys she would always 'finish' by applying a clit vibe.
I love the art of glass dildos and started buying them - first small and smooth, then larger and textured. These glass dildos are by far her favorite (although we have a steel PureWand and Alumnia Flow that she likes as well).
The best glass wands for my wife are 1-1/4" diameter with some texture and an upturned head for g-spot and a-spot stimulation. About 50-60% of the time she can orgasm without a clit vibe to help.
It's clear to me that it's necessary to start with shallow penetration - then as she becomes more aroused - she will press back into my thrusting to let me know it's Ok to go deeper - looking for her a-spot that will cause her to ejaculate. less
That's when I started buying dildos - initially jelly types and they seemed to work fine until she developed a sensitivity. I've thrown them all out except for her favorite one that I always cover with a condom. With these toys she would always 'finish' by applying a clit vibe.
I love the art of glass dildos and started buying them - first small and smooth, then larger and textured. These glass dildos are by far her favorite (although we have a steel PureWand and Alumnia Flow that she likes as well).
The best glass wands for my wife are 1-1/4" diameter with some texture and an upturned head for g-spot and a-spot stimulation. About 50-60% of the time she can orgasm without a clit vibe to help.
It's clear to me that it's necessary to start with shallow penetration - then as she becomes more aroused - she will press back into my thrusting to let me know it's Ok to go deeper - looking for her a-spot that will cause her to ejaculate. less
04/06/2012
somewhat
06/08/2012
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My partner loves rigid toys
Originally posted by
Liz2
Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel
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Many reviewers suggest toys for partner play. I as a woman have been usually unsuccessful here, as any toy that is rigid; steel, glass, plastic, etc; I find painful when my partner uses it on me. Yes, both my b/f and g/f are gentle but I always feel that I am being impaled and/or that they miss the mark as most rigid toys demand pinpoint accuracy. Am I alone here?
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06/08/2012
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I gotta try the Pure Wand
Originally posted by
EffinSara
With a straight, rigid toy I might be afraid that he'd accidentally pound my cervix with it. But with a toy like the Pure Wand, that seems to magically find its own way to my G-spot, he can do no wrong.
06/18/2012
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That is very true! Or you can wait for him to cum, clean up and go again!
Originally posted by
Red
Pardon the TMI, but I like being f*cked hard and fast. Thus, there is nothing - repeat, nothing - better than partner play with a dildo. Dildos don't have to worry about coming, after all
06/18/2012
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Sounds like you have fun!
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
OMG do I agree with you Red! I love to be pounded whether it's with a rigid toy, soft one or a hard cock doesn't matter as long as it's near brutal!
06/18/2012
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Thats how I am
Originally posted by
Beaners
My boyfriend and I use almost everything as a couple, rigid or not. He knows where the right spots are well enough that he can hit them with a rigid toy that requires accuracy.
06/18/2012
Toys while playing is always amazing!
06/18/2012
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I still havent used a glass wand
Originally posted by
Zombirella
Plastic doesn't really bother me but I'd prefer silicone. I have a glass toy but I have only used it by myself and I think I'd rather have my fiance use a more flexible, softer material if he wanted to 'play' with me.
06/18/2012
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I wish I had someone to do that with!
Originally posted by
LilLostLenore
ya i love having my bf dp me. he'll fuck my ass while he slides the dildo in and out of my pussy.
06/18/2012