The New Intimacy

Would you hold a dream over your mate?

Skip to last post
Set alerts
Updates
Forum search
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
buzz
Related to: 
buzz
Let's say you were both in bed and your mate was having a dream (calling another person's name, moaning, masterbating, etc). A very deep, wet dream. Would you hold that dream against them or would you let it slide? Would you think they were cheating on you with who they were dreaming about? Would you use it to start your own sexcapade with them?
03/28/2011
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Save Extra 20% On Love Cushion And Toy Set!
  • Anal Sub Hook&Rope Kit for $28.99 Only
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: married with children married with children
I would let it slide. Maybe joke with her about it alittle. But dreams are dreams. It is hard to control them, and as long as you dont act out your dreams, they stay dreams.
03/28/2011
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
There is no way I would hold it against them. I admit, maybe I might feel a tinge of jealousy, but dreams are impossible to control. And to be honest, I often find myself dreaming of other people, most of which I am not even attracted to and some I haven't seen since I was kid. I sure wouldn't want that held over my head.
03/28/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
I would probably let it slide. maybe crack a few jokes, but after that I would probably forget about the dream.
03/28/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by Pleasure Piratess
There is no way I would hold it against them. I admit, maybe I might feel a tinge of jealousy, but dreams are impossible to control. And to be honest, I often find myself dreaming of other people, most of which I am not even attracted to and some I ... more
Haha I wouldn't want those dreams held over my head either. I feel the same way.
03/28/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Pleasure Piratess
There is no way I would hold it against them. I admit, maybe I might feel a tinge of jealousy, but dreams are impossible to control. And to be honest, I often find myself dreaming of other people, most of which I am not even attracted to and some I ... more
Yep, same here. You can't control your dreams, hell, there's lots of stuff I've dreamed about that I wouldn't have wanted to dream about, if I had a choice in the matter!
03/28/2011
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
I would have to let it slid. I have had the same types of dreams, and even had dreams of my wife having sex with someone I know. How could I be upset at her for having the same dreams I have? We have no control over what we dream about.
03/28/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Dreams are incredibly hard to control. As long as I knew he didn't have any feelings like that towards the person in real life, I'd probably let it slide.
03/28/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
Let it slide, we both have secret fantacys and that is all it is. I would luv to talk to her about it maybe even see if she wants to make it real and go from there.
03/28/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyk515
Let's say you were both in bed and your mate was having a dream (calling another person's name, moaning, masterbating, etc). A very deep, wet dream. Would you hold that dream against them or would you let it slide? Would you think they were ... more
People can't help what they dream.

Would I use to "start my own sexcapade" with them? I'm not really sure what you mean. Usually, when people are dreaming, they cannot move or speak. Sleep talking takes place in a NON dreaming state, so even if they say things, they are NOT dreaming about these things.
03/28/2011