Tantus is an amazing company, virtually every item i see of theirs i will have at least one thing good to say about it. That doesn't short of the stroker. It is a great idea; soft velvety texture, rib like inner lining, and easy to clean. However...I dont like it because it doesn't have any give. most strokers will have some elasticity to be accommodating to virtually all men. The tantus stroker i feel fails in this sense. Even with lubricant, it seems as though it was made for a man requiring "snugger fit" condoms. Another problem with it is unlike most of the tantus products, it is one of the few that cannot tolerate any sort of silicone lubricant. This may not have been exactly what you were looking for, but i do hope it helps you. I'd suggest Cyberskin strokers before the tantus stroker. They're still silicone. less