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Contributor: earthpig earthpig
I have two fairly unusual problems. First is that I have never had an orgasm from oral sex. Even though my fiancee is very good it, and it feels incredible, I still can't finish.

My other problem is that I last too long during intercourse, and sometimes don't finish.

Am wondering if a Fleshlight might help cure me a little of either or both problems. I don't masturbate much anymore since my sex life is so good now, but I do believe I am desensitized from being circumsized and also from the death grip masturbation technique that men use.

Edited to add, I am average size and girth, about 5 3/4" to 6" if really excited, not sure if this makes a difference in which fleshlight to choose.

Any recommendations would help a lot!
06/02/2011
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Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
The Fleshlight STU is designed to help guys go longer by offering an intense sensation that you have to train yourself to get used to and last longer as a result. However you could probably use it to train yourself to go more quickly. My husband is about 5" or so in length, and he can feel the texture in that one just fine. I've also heard great things about the Maven if you wanted to try something a little cheaper than a Fleshlight to try and train yourself.
06/02/2011
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
The Fleshlight STU is great. I also REALLY like the Fleshlight Ice Clear Lady Crystal because it not only feels great but you can watch your cock as you pound it The Tenga Flip Hole is probably the best masturbator though. (Fleshlights are a close second.)
06/03/2011
Contributor: earthpig earthpig
Thanks for the feedback...I have been looking at them a lot, and still can't decide! My hope is to be able to use it to train for oral sex. My girlfriend tries so hard, and it feels so good, but I can't come from oral.

Leaning towards the STU
06/09/2011
Contributor: earthpig earthpig
Just ordered the STU from EF...can't wait to try it.
06/09/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by earthpig
Just ordered the STU from EF...can't wait to try it.
I hope you love it, my husband loves his
06/09/2011
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
Quote:
Originally posted by earthpig
Just ordered the STU from EF...can't wait to try it.
Be sure to post a review!
06/09/2011
Contributor: earthpig earthpig
Wow, got it today, used it cold. I do have some ED and could not get fully erect, but it still worked, and it felt really good. I lasted about 8 minutes. I can't wait to try it after warming it up and when I get a good woody. It feels very close to the real thing to me, but I think it will feel even better if I can use it stationary instead of using my hands to move it.

I think this will help me a lot...it feels so close to real vs using a dry hand and death grip. I use the hand grip where just my ring finger, middle finger, and thumb are touching me, and use the first pad of each finger, not a classic full handed grip. I think this desensitized me a lot.
06/14/2011