Fleshlight feels more intense than the real thing!

Contributor: callsignhusker callsignhusker
Has anyone else had this experience, I found that I have to move a fleshlight more slowly than I would move during sex otherwise I will get off way faster, it's actually way more intense than sex, I dunno whether that's bad or good but has any1 else had that experience?
03/30/2011
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Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
For me the sensations created by fleshlights are more intense than those during sex. However, I much prefer sex over a fleshlight. My fleshlights do not moan with pleasure, only offer physical pleasure to my penis, do not have breasts that move around or preset themselves to me for carressing,,,,and do not say they love me.

Duration with a fleshlight is also much shorter than regular sex, which can be a good thing, or bad. I have noticed that when I move them slowly I am able to feel the textures of the sleeve much more.

So, all in all, sounds like we are in the same boat.
04/04/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
I'm yet to buy one, because why not.. One thing that concerns me that I have to use a condom for the real thing, and for the FL obviously not. Then the topic of this discussion would be more true in my case? I use sensitive ultrathing condoms but no matter how thin they can be felt a little. Not too much tbh. But still.
04/16/2011
Contributor: Mark43 Mark43
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Originally posted by Howells
I'm yet to buy one, because why not.. One thing that concerns me that I have to use a condom for the real thing, and for the FL obviously not. Then the topic of this discussion would be more true in my case? I use sensitive ultrathing condoms but ... more
You should always use a condom with the FL. Safety first!
04/17/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
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Originally posted by Mark43
You should always use a condom with the FL. Safety first!
Really why?
04/18/2011
Contributor: MnWolf MnWolf
It depends on what one you have! I have four of them and the one that is the Extra Tight is rather mind blowing for me. I would have to say that the other three are a bit loser and I can tell the difference in the way that that each of them feel.

I have found that while using the fleshlights, I do have to be careful as to not to cum too fast with it. A real vagina elongates and opens up during the act of sex, also for most women the production of its own lube helps to keep things moving all the time. The fleshlight on the other hand are limited to the amount of lube that is there at a single given time. The friction and the fact that the fleshlight stays the same tightness all the time has a way of pushing a person to the limit.

Taking some time and learning exactly when you need more lube helps to over come the friction factor.

I just got a tenga double hole cup to review and The first time I used it, it blew me away that it was as tight as it is. But, knowing what I do about the fleshlight I found out that the lube that is in the holes from the factory, doesn't last that long.
04/18/2011
Contributor: mrweeks12000 mrweeks12000
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Has anyone else had this experience, I found that I have to move a fleshlight more slowly than I would move during sex otherwise I will get off way faster, it's actually way more intense than sex, I dunno whether that's bad or good but has ... more
I have the Fleshlight STU which is designed to overstimulate. If you can train yourself to last with the Trainer you can last longer during sex. The orgasm is way too intense and over too quickly so I ALWAYS use a condom and put some lube inside the condom as well as the fleshlight. Watered down KY is perfect.The condom reduces the friction and also slides back and forth like a foreskin (which I lack). I still have leg shaking orgasms but they are longer lasting and even permit some post orgasm thrusting which was too intense otherwise.I had difficulty ejaculating in other silicone type tubes so I got the STU version, but it gives so much sensation it's best for me to dial it down just a bit.
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