I personally wouldn't get him one. If you guys broke up you don't owe him anything. He can buy his own toys if he wants them so much.

I personally wouldn't get him anything if he wants a toy he can order it himself.
I don't know I am just fully following your breakup and whatnot maybe I am missing something

To me, that's pretty insulting and I wouldn't get him one!

Um, no. I wouldn't be buying an ex anything. That just sounds odd to even ask your ex to purchase something for you...he can get his own stuff.

Sounds like he is trying to trade some old porn to you for you buying him a new sex toy. Bad deal for you. I always like to keep on good terms with my ex's but don't let them squeeze money/stuff out of you, just respectfully decline and look towards a bright new exciting future!

Don't do it! Fleshlights are way more expensive than porn. I mean who even buys porn anymore... It's free everywhere all over the internet.

Oh hell mo lol. You get stuff that you wantforget the douch that's what the X is for. Kick him to the curb.

I guess it depends on what type of relationship you have now...I tend to stay friends with my ex's, aside from one, so if one were to ask me for something like that I'd be totally fine with it, because we're still friends, still hang out, still go to dinner together, hell one of my ex's is going to be living in the duplex my hubby and I own, renting the lower level from us. She takes us out to dinner, we all get on just fine, my hubby adores my ex's (except that one), so if one were to ask I wouldn't even question it. But they also know that we aren't together and that I don't do the friends with benefits thing.

That being said, if the one ex I DON'T hold a friendship with were to ask, I'd offer to get it for him with Eden points or something, and he could pay me in cash for a certain % off, but he wouldn't get it for free because he was a jerk, and I'd only do it because I'm nice even though I almost hate him (there are few people who I can say I honestly hate, and hate is a VERY strong word for me, so he's just at that very thin line before it) so I'd do it just because I like money, and I'm nice, but I'd make sure I said something along the lines of "sure, at least you'll have something to make up for not having me around" or something to that effect. I'd make sure he knows it doesn't mean I want him back or that I'd allow him to use me for sex, (well, now that I have a wonderful man in my life I wouldn't anyway, but even if it had been before my hubby and I met, I'd still have made the same strong points) and that I'm doing a favor for him, but it doesn't mean anything emotional to me.

BUT take this advice with a grain of salt. I am a stubborn person, and stick to my guns so to speak. An ex is an ex for a reason to me, and unless it was a mutual breakup because of something like not being available to spend time together or whatnot, an ex is what an ex will always be.

That is something he should be buying for himself. You do not break up with someone and ask them to buy you something.