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Contributor: kcordie kcordie
Do guys talk with friends about their masturbators? or are they a total secret. I know girls sometimes will talk about their vibrators, but i wonder if theres a gender difference
08/30/2010
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Contributor: TheCleansing TheCleansing
I keep all my toys a complete secret. Except from my girlfriend. Technically they're our toys.
09/02/2010
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Sometimes I talk about these kinds of things but not from personal experience because of the stigma attached to them especially if your are a guy.
09/02/2010
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
They're a total secret.
09/03/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
Depends on the friends. Since almost all of my friends are friends from the kinky community, we talk about this stuff on a regular basis. With other people, though, no.
09/03/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My guy will not tell anyone about the toys I have or the toys he has however I often share a lot of info with girlfriends if they need help with something or just to share stuff on a new favorite!

I find that some one of my really close guy friends is really open about his sexuality and he is open to talking with me about sex toys but I don't know that he would talk about them with other guys. I doubt it, he has an image that he doesn't want to damage (I am just speculating, I really have no clue)
09/03/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
The couple of friends I have know I review toys but I do not tell them witch ones. I do however recommend the ones I think they might like.
09/03/2010
Contributor: Kinkology Kinkology
I'm a guy and talk to my girl friends about them, but never my guy friends. That would feel pretty weird. I just tend to be more comfortable talking to girls.
09/04/2010
Contributor: The Nakanas The Nakanas
Pretty much don't talk to anybody but my wife about them
09/07/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
I don't talk with my friends about my masturbators. I have one friend who's married. He says he and his wife are sexually inactive. He's always asking if I know any of any women whom I can fix him up with and I keep telling him to get a pocket pussy. That's the most I'll talk about masturbators with friends.
09/14/2010
Contributor: psjim2007 psjim2007
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Originally posted by kcordie
Do guys talk with friends about their masturbators? or are they a total secret. I know girls sometimes will talk about their vibrators, but i wonder if theres a gender difference
I have a gay friend who I used to have sex with before he turned comletely gay. I haven't said anything to him, however I am sure if we get deep into the coversation I would tell him that I do masterbate now. I think he would be turned on. He once stuck a dildo in me when we were younger, but it didn't do anything for me. But now that I have learned the technique I love masterbating at least 5 times a week a couple times a day.
09/16/2010
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by kcordie
Do guys talk with friends about their masturbators? or are they a total secret. I know girls sometimes will talk about their vibrators, but i wonder if theres a gender difference
my husband doesn't like to talk about his sex life to anyone else, so he keeps it secret.
08/26/2020